If you can afford to go for Hajj, then GO FOR HAJJ!!!

Well, why don't you point that out to them when they do blab about it?

I'm not very good at praying, so this uncle at a party says, "son,you don't pray so you're headed for hell."
I got pretty peeved "uncle, you do a lot of gheebat, aap se waheen mulakaat hogi"