The pious Allah fearing ones, not the ones caught by TV channels and presented by the media (as an achievement) to the whole world, making them a symbol of generalization and judgement for the rest of the scholars. The good ones who are very poor and have a very simple lifestyle in a poor little house in a backward village having limited resources. If they feel sad on the amount of attention / encouragement / sympathy / support / friendships the gays are getting (by Muslims) compared to them.
Also if they are willing to try their best to organize everything in accordance to the wedding of Hazrat Fatima (r.a) and Hazrat Ali (r.a). Separate gender gatherings, simple food, modest dressing, no dance, no music, no rasm-e-hina, mostly women completely covered with very simple dress and also the eyes of men.
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Aik ki raato'n mein apni hichqiyo'n ka naghmah hai, apney anso'on ka jaam hai or bhook se taraptey bacho'n ke aarzoo'n ka lahu peena hai. Un ki faryadein unkey dilo'n mein dam torti hein.
Aur doosri taraf mauseequi ki mehfil garam hai, jaamo'n ka khanakna hai, badan ka tharakna hai, aur lazzato'n se bharey Allah (swt) ko lalkarney waley qehqahey hein....
In ko bhai Allah (swt) dekh raha hai, un ko bhi dekh raha hai, kisi bhi lamhey hamarey aamaal se Allah (swt) ghafil nahin hai.
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simple weddings are good. Went to one of my friend's wedding in masjid. Men and Women separate etc. My question to you: What it is the underline issue?. Gay weddings are talked about because this is social taboo issue. Whereas!. someone wanting to marry simple is not.
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I always say that weddings or any other event in your life should be similar to how you spend your life in general. If a person likes to spend their life in a simple manner, then he/she should have a simple wedding. I find that guests find it awkward ONLY when there is a dramatic difference in how you spend your life and your wedding. For example, I know of people who have mixed gatherings at home but all of a sudden decide to go segregated on their weddings. Now that doesnt make much sense to me.
Anyhow, i believe someone's wedding is a very personal thing. I am going to have my wedding exactly like the way my husband and I like as opposed to what my guests want. I don't think I care what any of the guests think. I expect them to participate in my happiness, eat, and just have a good time.
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no issues going to such weddings and actually attended some very simple segregated weddings.
although not sure that 'good ones' are limited to poor villager types
I know plenty of very religious people who are also materially blessed.
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The pious Allah fearing ones, not the ones caught by TV channels and presented by the media (as an achievement) to the whole world, making them a symbol of generalization and judgement for the rest of the scholars. The good ones who are very poor and have a very simple lifestyle in a poor little house in a backward village having limited resources. If they feel sad on the amount of attention / encouragement / sympathy / support / friendships the gays are getting (by Muslims) compared to them.
Also if they are willing to try their best to organize everything in accordance to the wedding of Hazrat Fatima (r.a) and Hazrat Ali (r.a). Separate gender gatherings, simple food, modest dressing, no dance, no music, no rasm-e-hina, mostly women completely covered with very simple dress and also the eyes of men.
Take away the poor and living in a backward village part as conditions, then that's my favorite kind of wedding.
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Also I wouldn't have a problem going to a consevative/Maulah religious wedding as much as I wouldn't have a problem with attending a gay/liberal wedding. As long as I'm invited with pyar aur khaloos, than that is all that matters.
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Location: Nikah in Masjid + Walima at home
Guest: Bride and Groom's close relatives
Food: 1 Main dish and something for dessert
Clothes: Nothing too fancy, a new Shalwar Kameez will do
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Joh Allah (swt) key saath Mukhlis ho'n, unka pyar aur khaloos to samajh mein aata hai. Magar joh Allah (swt) sey baghawat karein, unka pyaar aur khaloos pa kar kiya karengey hum. Unkey liye to ziyada duain kareingey, key Allah (swt) unko hidayat de aur unkey burey amaal ke shar se hamein mehfooz rakhey.
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The pious Allah fearing ones, not the ones caught by TV channels and presented by the media (as an achievement) to the whole world, making them a symbol of generalization and judgement for the rest of the scholars. The good ones who are very poor and have a very simple lifestyle in a poor little house in a backward village having limited resources. If they feel sad on the amount of attention / encouragement / sympathy / support / friendships the gays are getting (by Muslims) compared to them.
Also if they are willing to try their best to organize everything in accordance to the wedding of Hazrat Fatima (r.a) and Hazrat Ali (r.a). Separate gender gatherings, simple food, modest dressing, no dance, no music, no rasm-e-hina, mostly women completely covered with very simple dress and also the eyes of men.
That's beautiful man, you just described my ideal wedding. That's what I'm gonna do for my kids inSHAllah.
