Re: if u were to choose b/w father n mother
I love both but abba can always remarry and have company, women on the other hand in our society don't do either because they don't want to or just to follow what our culture dictates.
If God forbid anything of that sort was to happen, I'd have a good relationship with my dad but I'd live with my mom and look after her and stuff but insha Allah that wont happen because my mom and dad love each other.