if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

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Re: if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

hira,

u laid it out as truly as anyone possibly could.
there is this cultural and or familial scheme of forcing or at least implying to young adults, esp girls to settle soon or else, a u will be lumped with a preselected "hush-band".

not that parents do not matter, but some decisions are to be cooperatively made, by the ones who they are about.

so, in this sense, the to be married couple needs to be satisfied before they sign off on the marital contrast.

thanks,
best.

dushi

p.s. cannot take the 'picking' business to blame someone else later for decisions about noone else's, but one's own life assurance, productivity, & absolutely pure contentment. i am for the least demanding, noiseless, peaceful, quietly set and carried out marriage.

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Re: if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

***Easy… Dushwari give the second one to SARA516…:smiley: ***

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Re: if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

she should find her own. i'm sure she will.
i have only one. :>.

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I have one :emmy:

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**And surely a Good One!...:) **

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Re: if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

***Don’t be mad, I was reading between the lines…:slight_smile: ***

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Re: if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

no doubt about that, Subhan-Allah.
Allah salamut, kushhal rakhey.

Amen.

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:jhanda:

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Its all about the process of elimination.

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Yaar don’t pick on Sara516… :grumpy:

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^ Woh tumhara kaam hai haina :emmy:

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Re: if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

Noop, I did not say anything about you in a wrong way.
Please don’t misinterpret me :bummer:

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Re: if u have more than 1 person, who seems eligible? how do u make the decision?

count ur blessings. :>

do not feel offended. .

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This is a strange thread...
You seem to be discussing something which isnt wholely rational in a rational manner...
If both men are suitable in terms of they fit the basic criteria that you set then thats a good start...
Now Dushwari its really not that hard...who do you get on with bette?...who do you like better?...they arent identical people with identical personalities...in this situation its gut feeling on who you like and who you think is right for you...

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NBN,
you are correct.
it is rational
and eventually decisions will get made.