If one has a problem with their MIL...

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Re: If one has a problem with their MIL…

@redvelvet

I think that when your friend’s husband has calmed down…she needs to address the matter with him. She needs to tell him that at least she expressed her own concerns about his mother to his face…and not behind her back. Tell him that respect needs to be mutual and not one sided…that both sides need to have consideration for each other if a marriage is to be a stable one.

Yeah, I think (also going o your post before this one), that people involve too many other people in personal problems. I said this to my friend and she was offended, but at the same time, I give her props to saying it straight to her hubby first, rather than complaining about the MIL to her freinds, then her mom, then her sister etc. Cos I agree, if you do that a lot of the times women get sucked into this sort of mental game, and I think thats where a majority of saas-bahu crap that we see in women comes into being.