If Men are allowed to marry 4 women, Why not women are allowed to marry 4 men?

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[quote]
Originally posted by kumarakn:
**Warrior of Allah!

Your whole argument assumes that a widow cannot live on her own. It shows the dependence of women on men - which was a sad reality of the past. Now that things are changing, women need not be dependent, why should a man support her?

Also even if the widow wants a companion, why can't a widower marry her?**
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Ok. if a woman is not dependent the its fine.. now body tells u to go out and marry 4 Women.. its a thing thats allowed.. And the man can marry wid 4 if its necessary.. if not then its fine.. its a option and it makes our lives free of oppression ..
And dude all this thoughts that i am seing in pplz mind are seems to me western.. and i tell u that i have seen the relationships and marriages mess up over here.. and when i see these people and how they suffer cause of this kufar culture of theirs i wish they were Muslims, that could've made their problems much easear. Now dont ask me wht i see here i think that u r smart enough to know...
"Allah's laws by defination has no flaws"

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In today’s newspaper I read.
“…the suside bomers in Palestine,are considered matyrs, They hope to enter paradise where they will be 72 virgins for each of them.”
What happens to the the 16 year old female suside bommer “matyr”…??
just curious !! enlighten me, but be nice please! lol

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so u choose to believe abt the 72 virgins but nothing else.so selective!!!

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besides if i knew abt evrything and how allah thinks i would not be human would i?

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[quote]
Originally posted by Abdali:
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Marriage is not just sex but a lot more and what has prostitution got to do with marriage. Women adopt this profession for several reason not for sex.

[This message has been edited by Abdali (edited April 04, 2002).]**
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munnay

this was in reply to the point that women can not handle more than one man.

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[quote]
Originally posted by FreeSoul:
** munnay

this was in reply to the point that women can not handle more than one man.

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papu,

Your notion that women go into prostitution because they can handle multiple men is flawed, most are there to make a quick buck not sex. Marriage is a lot more thn sex.

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** So, are muslims rewarded with 72 virgin women when they become suicide bombers? What about women? Are they given 72 Virgin men? **

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kumar,

why you so keen to find out about getting 72 virgin men? are you planning on committing suicide?

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[quote]
Originally posted by Mr Xtreme:
**kumar,

why you so keen to find out about getting 72 virgin men? are you planning on committing suicide?**
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Dude, just ignore this person. Is he asking questions relating to the topic? No. I've mentioned that in my post. So, why don't you guys take out this crap?

Take Your Best Shot At Me

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[quote]
Originally posted by Pakistani Tiger:
** Dude, just ignore this person.
Take Your Best Shot At Me**
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naveed agrees.yawns.not a worthy adversary this hindu brother of ours

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lol
so useless dicussion..

if women were interested , they would have started this thread, but our hindu guppies are more interested..

anyways topic is crap, dosnt deserved to be argued upon..

that is all..

Dont think "you can" know "you can"
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As usual, you guys call the topic to be crap, or the postor to be a moron, when a simple question is asked

** "Why aren't women treated equal to men in Islam?" **

Islam, from what you guys say is rigidly sexist! How sexist they could'v been to come up with a reward of 72 virgins if you become a shaheed killing your kafirs?

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[quote]
Originally posted by kumarakn:
**As usual, you guys call the topic to be crap, or the postor to be a moron, when a simple question is asked

** "Why aren't women treated equal to men in Islam?" **

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cudnt resist.sexist in ur limited intellect.

atleast this dont happen here

In what appeared to be a revival of a centuries-old custom of "Sati", a young woman belonging to a warrior caste of Rajasthan climbed into the funeral pyre of her husband, police said yesterday. Eighteen-year old Roop Kanwar's husband, Mansingh, had died in a hospital in Kikar district on Friday, His body was later taken to his home village at Diwrala for cremation. Roop Kanwar sat on the funeral pyre while it was lit by one of Mansingh ' s relatives. Hundreds of villagers who knew of her "Sati" well in advance gathered at the spot shouting slogans in praise of the burning widow. Police, who claimed to have received the information late, registered a case against four close relatives of Mansingh for having "HELPED" Roop Kanwar commit "Sati".

Roop Kanwar's husband, Mansingh took more than Rs. 100,000 worth of dowry in the form of money, 25 tola of gold, a TV, a radio and a refrigerator. Though Mansingh had demanded dowry worth of 200,000 rupees, her father had success- fully negotiated and reduced the amount to Rs. 100,000/=. So far in the same village more than 23 dowry killings have occurred in the last 3 years as recompense for not bringing the promised dowry in time.

The paper continues that the most revealing statement came from Mr. Cheeta Singh, a village teacher who said:

"After all, she had no life to took forward to. As a widow, remarriage was out of the question in the Hindu tradition bound community".
The teacher continues:
"The society treats a widow as a "kulachani" (an evil omen) and a economic liability. She has to remain barefoot, sleep on the floor and is not allowed to venture out of the house. She is slandered if seen talking to any male. It was better that she died, than live such a life," he said.

tell me which caste do u belong to?

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[quote]
Originally posted by kumarakn:
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Islam, from what you guys say is rigidly sexist! How sexist they could'v been to come up with a reward of 72 virgins if you become a shaheed killing your kafirs?**
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so tell me dear bro y is islam the fastest growing religion.

give me a simple straightforward answer.
set an example of clear answers
we will follow suit

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The answer to the titile of this thread has been given several times over by many members.

If you are still not satisfied, then please carry out some personal investigation to satisfy yourself ... either way.

Alternatively, as this topic has been previously tackled several times in the forum, you are more than welcome to search for past threads holding similar discussions.

Sentinel.