If love is so painful then why .....

Yeah guys I know this would be another love thread but i really want to know…

If Love is so painful then why do u guys fall in love? Why do u guys go with heart rather than brain? And if your heart breaks once then why not give it another chance? Do u guys really like to suffer from pain? Why don’t u guys think that may be that was better for u or may be Allah has decided something better for u guys? Or even may be there is someone better than her/him for u? I noticed something that people who fall remember their girl/boy more then they remember Allah… do u guys think that is why Allah is making you guys suffer? Not be able to sleep at night and remembering him/her… don’t u guys think that u will get more peace if u read Tahajud namaz ? i have seen many people who decide not to marry once they are heart broken do u guys think it is right? WHY NOT GIVE IT ANOTHER CHANCE? Today I was reading these poems and i felt like asking this question
Would really appreciate nice replies…

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^ would love to hear ur answer :)

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better 2 leave it ... it would start war here ...

but in short I would like 2 say ... " its part of life .. u hav 2 suffer ... or u hav 2 enjoy in this life "

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^ goshh but dear this thing is killing me…
it is not a part of life … we are making it part of our lives… :smack:

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okay … if i agree wid u … then its in our nature … 2 b loved or 2 love …

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Attia is every thing ok ?

Looks as if some thing has gone wrong lately

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^ shoaib dear nothing is wrong with me ... but it is just that it really pisses me off when someone come and cries of being separated or heart broken :(

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Ok if we want to love someone or being loved by someone then why do we suffer? even though Allah said love and care for each other then why suffer?
isnt it because we forget Allah ?

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who say everyone suffer ? … :rolleyes:

But Main reason is that we Forget ALLAH …

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there are those feelings we wud feel! good and bad time,...it will make our lifes more colorfull!

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It hurts to love someone
and not be loved in return,
but what is most painful is to love someone
and never finding the courage to let the
person know how you feel.

Maybe ALLAH(SWT) wants us to meet
a few wrong people
before meeting the right one
so that when we finally
meet the right person,
we should know how to be grateful for that gift.

Love is when you take away the feeling,
the passion, the romance-
and you find out you still care for that person.

A sad thing about life
is when you meet someone
that means a lot to you,
only to find out in the end,
that it was never bound to be
and you just have to let go.

When one door of hapiness closes,
another opens but often we look
so long at the closed door
that we don't see the one
which has beeb opened for us.

The best kind of friend
is the one you could sit on a porch,
and swing with,
never say a word,
and then walk away
feeling like that was the best
conversation you've had.

It's true that we don't know
what we've got until we lost it,
but it's also true that we don't know
what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love
is never an assurance that they'll love you back,
don't expect love in return,
just wait for it to grow in their
heart but if it doesn't,
be content it grew in yours.

There are things you love to hear
but you would never hear
it from the person from whom
you would like to hear it,
but don't be deaf to hear it from the person
who says it with his or her heart.

Never say goodbye
when you still want to try,
never give up when
you still feel you can take it,
never say you don't love that person
anymore when you can't let go.

Love comes to those who still hope,
even though they've been disappointed,
to those who stil believe,
even though they've been betrayed,
need to love those who still love
even though they've been hurt before.

It takes a minute
to have crush on someone,
an hour to like someone,
and a day to love someone,
but it takes a lifetime
to forget someone.

Don't go for looks,
it can deceive,
don't go for wealth,
even that fades away.
Go for someone
who makes you smile
because only a smile
makes a dark day seem bright.
Hope you find that person.

There are some moments in life
when you really miss someone
that you want to pick them
from you dreams
and hug them for real.
Hope you dream of that someone.

Dream what you want to dream,
go where you want to go,
be what you want to be,
cause you have only one life
and one chance to do all the
thing you want in life.

May you have enough happiness
to make you sweet,
enough trials to make you strong,
enough sorrow to keep you human,
enough hope to make you happy
and enough money to buy me gifts
Always put yourself in other's shoes.
It you feel that it hurts you,
it probably hurts the person, too.

A careless word may kindle strife,
a cruel word may wreck a life,
a timely word may level stress,
a lovely word may heal and bless.

The beginning of love
is to let those we love
be perfectly themseleves,
and not to twist them with you own image,
otherwise, we love only
the reflection of ourseleves we find in them.

The happiest of people
don't necessarily have the best of everything
they just make the most of everything
that coems alond their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry,
those who hurt, those who
have searched and those who have tried.
For only they can appreciate
the importance of people
who have touched their lives.

Love starts with a smile,
develop with a kiss and ends with a tear.

The brightest future
will always be based on a forgotten past,
you can't go on well in life
until you let go of your past
failures and heartaches.

When you were born,
you were crying
and everyone around you was smiling,
live your life so that when you die,
you're smiling
and everyone around you is crying.

** ATTIA me out ... I can't type long post like u .... so i pasted thi s.. may b u will find ur asnwer in it ** ...

peace out

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It does hurt but time is the best healer.

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:teary1:

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so it means that we have to let it give us pain until we learn it :slight_smile:

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ap ko kia howa shoaib jee :slight_smile:

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** Sinner ** thanks alot it really did answer some of my questions :blush:

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mujhay app ke yaad aa gayee :dixsi: :teary2:

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I gave it another chance :slight_smile: and now looking back at my past…im surprised how I even lasted one day with that idiot…let alone 4 years.

and yeah, I believe everything happens for the better. im glad it ended with my ex cuz then I wouldnt have met who I am with now. the guy im with now is an angel in disguise :slight_smile:

so to the past…I say “good riddance” :slight_smile:

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Love comes with lust.
Lust is for satisfying your thoughts with practical answers to our curious mind
Mind is functional through biological reactions
Reactions lure you to physical relations
Relations once broken are never truly mend

Freedom of self being is every thing and should be the ’ most treasured ’ asset of ones life

The world is evolving towards the highest peak of selfishness adn ‘ME’ ego ever seen.

Attia , :hug: