If husband asks to maintain the figure

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so the question is if your husband wants you to remain slim and asks you to follow a certain health regime, would you feel okay about it or you will have thoughts that he might not admire you if you don’t fall into the certain criteria of beauty that he has?

i am asking this for a friend who has recently gotten married( over two months now) and her husband started to ask her to take so and so diet and do so and so exercise so she remains in a particular figure(she has a good figure btw). She is trying and joined the gym too but this demand by her husband irks her and she feels undue pressure on herself.

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Re: If husband asks to maintain the figure

Then she needs to tell him how she feels. You should want to maintain yourself…first and foremost…for yourself before anyone else. If he’s often telling her about this, then I don’t blame her for wondering what he’d do if she gets a few wrinkles, or if she takes long to lose the weight after having a baby or three. Does he maintain his weight? What if he loses his hair? Is there more to the marriage than just physical attraction? She should talk to him.