Hi
I would say DON't DO it, look forward to your wedding night, the first night, it will be so special and more importantly, you may be all loved up right now but if you ever have an argument he will throw it back on your face that u werent a virgin when he married you. he will lose respect. so if you guys are getting uncontrobblable then dont meet alone, or meet in public places, and towards the wedidng time assuming its close then meet less as that will add more fun and missing each other feeling towards the wedding.
good luck in whatever u decide.
then the guy is retarded and narrow minded it takes TWO. If the guy says that i wud slap him.