Re: If after marriage.....part 2
Being gay is an orientation or preference, its not that gay men cannot be attracted to a woman or cant have physical relations with them (as far as i understand).
yes it's possible for a man that is not attracted to his wife to make his wife pregnant but living the lie of being straight will eventually make him so frustrated he might take it out on the wife. I've seen one example of it and the man turned completely cold and emotionless to his wife. It would be like living in twilight zone especially if she still does not suspect that he is gay if he's been putting up a good act or trying to act straight. Yes i've seen this actual situation in real life.