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[UZ]

@NJMasti

That’s just very rude.

Can you elaborate on what type of complains you get?

Most of the time I have seen teachers talk to parents when they come to pick up after school - that is to reinforce good behavior at home with parents supervision, so the child can improve his behavior.

If your child is good at home and the teacher complains, then REQUEST that you can be allowed to WATCH the child in class the next day. Which means, you will be observing the child’s behavior but without the child knowing you are there. Like sit at the spot where you won’t be noticed by the child.

It’s really not good for the child if he keeps hearing teacher say things to his face. Act NOW!

NJ most complains are about recess time and eating time when he is fooling around.Nj masti to be honest he is a hyper kid but if I am managing at home and he sits with me and complete his homework then teacher should do that too.Instead of saying that he is too much all we can do is take away some privillages but still he doesn’t listen.And last meeting was not really good. It was too much for me to handle.

@pyaare

this is bad…you should maybe talk to the headteacher and tell her that you have concerns and that what the teacher is telling you is not reflective of your childs personality, also ask classroom assistant and lunch time supervisor and see if they all feel the same way about your child…

it is worrying because a child can so easily get labelled as problematic and then he will have this reputation throughout his schooling, and he will always act this way as he is ‘expected’ to by all those around him.

Payari once I will get him to another school I will tell the principal.

@lifeless

umm if the teacher is saying such stuff shouldnt it be brought to the attention of some higher authority?

I will soon Lifey

@Mamaof3

Hey UZ…sorry to hear about this. A good pre-k teacher would not act like this. If there is a problem, the teacher will tell the parent about the problem, how it is resolved at school and that a similar approach should be taken at home to reinforce. It sounds like this teacher is vindictive about whatever she feels is the bad behavior and takes it out on the poor kid instead of helping him overcome.

Is he ready for pre-k? Does he act out because he doesnt want to be there? There are many ways to deal with this, make a little photo album with pictures of mommy and home. Depending on the exact issue(s), there are much better ways to deal with and resolve them.

I’d find a different teacher or school before it really affects your little guy and makes him hate school right from the start.

Good luck!

Mama u have defined it well, the teacher is not giving me any solution and she is just frustrated too, I know sometimes its really hard to deal with hyper kids but still I am dealing with him and she is suppose to tell me things too.But she is tired of him and because of her my kid is not at all happy at school.
PS. mama he is ready for school because he went to school when he was 3 and he was really happy there, he still tells me mama I miss my Casy school.(the name of the school)

@Muzna

Have you had a private interview with the teacher?
Have you requested an interview with the teacher and the principal of the school?

If your child is hyper and you acknowledge this then there may be certain steps that you need to take to help him adjust to the school environment.

Where do you live? In USA or elsewhere?

There has to be more to this…

Muzna its too early to tell that he is hyper active kid, I talk to school psychologist about it and she told me he is just 4 and kids at that age are usually hyper, now I am gonna talk to her tomorrow again with my child 's problem and about teacher’s behavior. I live in USA and teacher is an American.

Muzna one more question what should I ask in private interview with teacher and principal?