Re: If a guy gets married at 35 …
The life of that man sounds a lot like mine. I work long hours, and multi-task outside, and I guess I get a lot done in my day. Most desi woman would look at my schedule and ask how I have time for family, friends, and a social life, but I do, and that too with a lot of time to spare as you can see how much time I waste around here. 
You know, you see me in the chat room all the time - that’s all time that I can easily divert to a husband and kids,and no doubt I’d probably have to cut back on some things , but I dont see myself needing to leave my job or drop a lot of my hobbies/activities to fit in time for a family.
Not everyone has the need to spend X number of hours devoted on family/friends/fun → maybe you require weekends and evenings and maybe someone else is happy with less hrs in the week.
I don’t see why we all have to live alike.