If a guy gets married at 35 ...

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Re: If a guy gets married at 35 …

@CoughCough

I wrote a longish reply explaining why you’re assumptions about him are incorrect but I can’t be bothered explaining and dont really have a need to prove this.

I will just say, his family has never suffered and his wife and him are one of the greatest couples I have ever met. He has an active social life too. He isnt ALWAYS the first person at the job, sometimes hes the last, and sometimes he is the first out. Its balance. My point was there are times when he has done these. But his work and family life are in the balance I hope I have when I have my family.

“Ali, family always comes first”

The thing is that this is not a anomaly. I know a number of people in my family and among my friends who live a full life in all aspects and with very busy schedules. the quality and quantity of time has to be balanced and each minute starts counting for more and more, in some cases things that would otherwise done personally but now would take time away from family or work or friends get outsourced, whether its cleaning, laundry, yardwork.. I know people who have moved very close to work for the sole reason that being 15 minutes away vs an hour+ away gives them the ability to spend less time at commute. Its a balancing act and reducing what you consider to be the least important so you have time for what is more important, and ..then going back to the point I started with, balancing quality with quantity.