If a guy gets married at 35 ...

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Re: If a guy gets married at 35 …

@Miss Manno

Why is it that “getting married at a decent age and starting a family” is the main concern? Why does everyone have to be a good wife/ husband? Why is it that desis don’t understand that … perhaps one wants to find them self, and create a personality, and a life style/ living, or be financially stable, what ever the case may be. Maybe not everyone wants to be someone crutch or have to depend on someone else to social satisfaction.

I think being rushed into to marriage is the biggest reason to so many marriages failing today. “Back in the day”, everyone knew that everything they did, was preparing them for a future with someone else. In today’s generation, we’re taught, and expected to understand, that we are individuals.

But desis seem to be stuck in the same mind set that girls need to be married off before they get old and can’t have children.

Back to what someone else said, jo naseeb mai likha hai, VO HE milna hai.

because in our desipan, we find religion overlapping culture… some people/parents get their kids married off early to avoid kids having to “sin” and what not… so they would rather get them married off early to avoid any such kind of shame… and yada yada yada…

everyone has their own reasons..

side note: theres no reason why u couldnt find yourself after marriage either.