Re: I want to get back to work.
Ultimately you and your husband are responsible for the upbringing of your children…so don’t worry about what other people think. You can’t please everyone all the time. People will always have something negative to say about everything.
It sounds like you and your husband are on the same page which is the most important thing. I think you should go back to work. And after a few months, if you feel that your children are being affected negatively as a result of you working OR that you can’t be the type of mother/wife you want to be while working…then the option of leaving your job is always there. Or at that time you could even look for a part-time position if that’s an option.
As long as you have your husband’s support in this decision, you have nothing to lose by giving this a try. 