Ok so I’m sick of the overprotective attitude of my parents, I myself I’m more conservative and religious than either of them but when somebody else puts down rules for me or tells me what to do or what not to do, even if it be my parents it annoys me to no end…
So I’m thinking maybe I should do some course away from home, it’ll be an excuse to have some freedom and partyyy.. I’m taking a year out this year and will be going to university close to home next year so there’s no chance of me getting any breathing space any other way..
But I can’t think of what to do or where, or if it’s too late to enrol? I want a nice easy one year course, in a college away from home.. I’m thinking maybe, Islam, business, foreign language course.. But I don’t want it abroad just in the UK, I’d feel homesick and scared and vulnerable in a completely alien society.. Any one have any ideas or institutions in mind??
Ok so I’m sick of the overprotective attitude of my parents, I myself I’m more conservative and religious than either of them but when somebody else puts down rules for me or tells me what to do or what not to do, even if it be my parents it annoys me to no end…
Make sure you don't treat your wife the way your parents treat you.
Ok so I’m sick of the overprotective attitude of my parents, ** I myself I’m more conservative and religious than either of them ** but when somebody else puts down rules for me or tells me what to do or what not to do, even if it be my parents it annoys me to no end…
So I’m thinking maybe I should do some course away from home, ** it’ll be an excuse to have some freedom and partyyy ** .. I’m taking a year out this year and will be going to university close to home next year so there’s no chance of me getting any breathing space any other way..
So you wanna party adn ur more conservative than ur parents?? Accha...
Your parents are responsible foryou... it's their right to tell you what to do, especially when it comes to religion.
Move out for the right reasons, coz u got a better job, a better education, got married etc.
I just remember some of the stuff he's posted in various forums. The kid himself is quite keen on being strict on girls, etc, but this is okay. You're right Sara516, the hypocrisy of desis just never ends.
maybe his partying means something else. I refer to partying as laying around, spending money on video games and just on the computer the whole day. No seriously. That's fun to me.
I want to break free
I want to break free
I want to break free from your lies
You're so self satisfied I don't need you
I've got to break free
God knows God knows I want to break free
I've fallen in love
I've fallen in love for the first time
And this time I know it's for real
I've fallen in love yeah
God knows God knows I've fallen in love
It's strange but it's true
I can't get over the way you love me like you do
But I have to be sure
When I walk out that door
Oh how I want to be free baby
Oh how I want to be free
Oh how I want to break free
But life still goes on
I can't get used to living without living without
Living without you by my side
I don't want to live alone hey
God knows got to make it on my own
So baby can't you see
I've got to break free
I've got to break free
I want to break free yeah
I want I want I want I want to break free....
Exactlyyy.. I meant just doing awara gardi with some other paki lads, coming home late, sleeping when i want, getting up when i want, no studying (just an excuse), racing cars, going out.. lazing around playing computer games.
If you want freedom then you should definitely move out to your own apartment. However, you should not accept any money from your parents. Get a job, make your own way for a year. What you are describing is not "freedom", it is "lazy".
