I want me some nakhrey!

So, its my legal right in Islam to have a maid…

Men, do I get one?

Re: I want me some nakhrey!

Ask bhaijaan… :chai:

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Sure you will . Let him marry one from Pakistan now :p

While we are on the topic of legal rights in islam ... can we guys talk about few things ...:D

Re: I want me some nakhrey!

Demanding a maid from your husband is your right only when you were raised in a household with a maid. If your husband cannot afford it then you have a right to take khula.

This is what the opinion of the scholars and hanafi school so I’m not making it up.

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/religion-scripture/324498-rights-responsibilities-marriage-shaykh-hamza-yusuf.html

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how about common middle-ground like sensible people?

you get a french maid

outfit.

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Demanding a maid from your husband is your right only when you were raised in a household with a maid.[

if the girl came from a family with no maid but of 3 members (mom/dad/herself), coming into a family of lets say six (MIL/FIL/HubbY/Herself/2 devars) .. is she still not allowed to demand a maid?](“http://www.paklinks.com/gs/religion-scripture/324498-rights-responsibilities-marriage-shaykh-hamza-yusuf.html”)

Re: I want me some nakhrey!

I'll get one.. eventually :)

so u all know "demanding a maid is my right in islam" but does anyone know Hazrat Mohammad s.a.w. said "apna kaam khud karna chahiye"?

I'm not saying getting a maid is wrong, lekin jub tak ur physically able to do the household work yourself, why put it on someone else's shoulders??

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TLK, how dare you. The DIL IS the maid!

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I'm not saying getting a maid is wrong, lekin jub tak ur physically able to do the household work yourself, why put it on someone else's shoulders??
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so you can offer employment to another family.

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Honestly it's not too expensive to get a maid in the US. Most of the people I know have maids to vacuum, dust, clean the bathrooms, mop etc. In fact my MIL's maid even does their laundry and irons their clothes! So you can definitely have a maid in the US. It's not a luxury only afforded by the super-rich! I think most charge around 75-100 bucks per week.

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Ijust want a maid to do the dishes THATS IT. I will do all chores* gladly by yself with NO help...but not the dishes.

*I do those chores every coupla weeks.

Re: I want me some nakhrey!

Paper plates is your answer.

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but but but i don twant practical solutions :(

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A hubby can never cheat on his wife with paper plates. On the pother hand, a young Mexican maid can cause some serious problems in a desi household.

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^ speaking of mexican maids this remind sme of when we were in meXico..and…

nevermind :nahi:

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But Im too busy raising his brats! I want a maid!

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75-100 per week is expensive for some. I keep my groceries under 15 for the week.

Whatabout the maid, does she also has a lega right in Islam for a maid, then that maid to have a maid also and ........