dont worry it takes time, for some its longer thn others. your khala and phupho are not relevant as your parents had you so clearly there is nothing wrong with your genes. Talk to a fertility doctor, they can run some tests on you and your husband. are you regular with your periods?
you should see a fertility specialist. It coudl be simple thing that is not getting you pregnant. Make sure they run all the necessary tests before you decide to fork over 10K for ivf. Somethign simple as having an infection could be cleared up by taking antibiotics (for you and ur hubby) could help.
Sahar in the UK the GP runs all the tests required for the health of the patients that in America (maybe canada) people go to their gynaecologist for. SO they run smear tests etc they send you a letter every time your test is coming up etc. So its quite a different system.
Mizz Khan, going to the GP is the right thing to do, if you have been trying to a year they should give you some further advice.
Learn about your cycle and when you will be ovulating etc that might help you too!
less than 1 year is too short Mizz Khan :) and a lot of people don't know how to conceive, coz they dont have intercourse enough..
If ur trying to conceive, this should be daily or even more...
Also a problem is that men don't ejaculate fully in the female, make sure this is done right..
I got the appointment today and as i had a blood test recently i dont need any tests at this stage. My husband is required to have a semen test and once the results come my gp will refer us to a fertility clinic.
I spoke to my hubby and asked him to make an appointment with his gp to get this done and he refused to go:-( he said why am i being so imaptient and he thinks we havent been trying long enough to now go to the docs he thinks i should chill out and wait
I know he also wants a baby and in understand where hes coming from but whats the harm in getting these tests done!
Dont know what to dooo now! Im thnking wait for few days and speak to him again
and a lot of people don't know how to conceive, coz they dont have intercourse enough..
If ur trying to conceive, this should be daily or even more...
once a day is more than enough to conceive. if you have sex more than once a day or too frequently during the week, it actually declines the quality of the sperm. there's no need to overdo it. you need to identify your fertile times and make sure you have sex on those days. have you tried using an ovulation kit or a fertility monitor from the drug store?
do you feel you have been trying enough? like honestly been trying enough and especially at the right times of the month?
exactly. a half-hearted attempt once a month does not lead to a pregnancy unless you get very, very lucky.
as for your husband's reluctance to test, maybe he's right. maybe you need to take a step back and relax and let nature take its course. i know that can be hard when everyone around you is pregnant or having babies and that's all you can think about (been there, done that!) but remember that stress also plays a role in not being able to conceive successfully. the more you focus, the less likely it is to happen, unfortunately. how about taking a vacation somewhere? sometimes being away from your everyday environment is just what you need to take your mind off things.
To be honest we dont have sex all the time 3/4 times a week max! I have got a clear blue ovulation sticks i used them this cycle i am due my p's end of this week lets see...if tey come or they dont
I thnk next month i will use the ovulation stick proerly and try to have intercourse on a regular basis every other day and we'll see where that takes us
I dont know if many of u beleive in tavees i was told my someone that have been done on me and that could be a cause in hindering me to conceive.... I dont know... Some people say it could be nazar...
I do prY namaz but dont pray regularly inshallah i will start properly and not because i want to have a baby but because i want to better myself as a muslim and inshallah one day my duas will be answered.
i want one too and im married for 1.5 yrs now…we will have little babies soon inshAllah 
Enjoy the leisure while you can