I too have a Dream

lethal_kamikaze · June 5, 2010, 11:12am

No its not a moved thread .. Its copy

I am quiet annoyed by the fact that people get married and begin to complain .. I mean come on . should have thought about it before if it was love marraige then should knw better ..that …that this IS your final choice and your happy .. thas why you married right .. and if it was arranged .. then you should have thought about it when it was time where you could opt out ..and had you opted out then there would nt be a life1 section ..would be a relief if ther wasnt and and if opted in … then for goodness sake grow a brain ..and live with it …complaining aint gona helpl ..aur woh bhi complaining to gher ppl .. who dont even knw your sittuation 100% .. and if you got married with full confidence .. then dont you knw the meaning of committement ???

anyways, friendly and humble request .. that marrige is a sacred and it has been since the creation of a sacred pact - way of life.. take it seriously and live by it as its supposed to … As muslims we should not be follwing what cultures tell you .. but rather Its our duty ..to look at the beautiful life of Prophet Muhammad SAW as to how he SAW treated his wifes and look at the beloved lifes of the the wifes of the Prophet SAW and hw they were obedient to the messenger SAW. We have soooooo many problems and issues .. because we have stop believing in islam and opted for an alternative .way of life …

Again ..my objective for opeing this thread is not to have a bash at anyone .. but as a humble servent of Allah Almighty .. I talk from experience that … marriage is one thing out of many what will keep you happy in this world and the heaafter.. your legacy lives on thru marriage… or your just gona be dead after 20 40 years and be knwn as a no body ..simple as that .. and if you wana be someone .. history through out time over and over tells that with every mans success, wife plays a major role .. and for the wife .. the mans duty is to support his wife in every aspect .. even respect and honor because your legacy/generation lives on only with the blessings from your wife.

so am sure .. this is what all of us want .. so why not Grow up ??

Thank You.

zabardast :k:

yupe grow up and keep marriage life issue to ur self