One day, I’ll wake up. And for an entire month, not see an anti-husband/anti-wife thread in Life1.
Seriously? Tum logon ko koi chain nahin hai? It’s getting a bit boring to see the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again, just put into different words.
Get my point?
Grow up guys and girls. You are married people now. Thank you.
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I am quiet annoyed by the fact that people get married and begin to complain .. I mean come on . should have thought about it before if it was love marraige then should knw better ..that ...that this IS your final choice and your happy .. thas why you married right .. and if it was arranged .. then you should have thought about it when it was time where you could opt out ..and had you opted out then there would nt be a life1 section ..would be a relief if ther wasnt :p and and if opted in ... then for goodness sake grow a brain ..and live with it ....complaining aint gona helpl ..aur woh bhi complaining to gher ppl .. who dont even knw your sittuation 100% .. and if you got married with full confidence .. then dont you knw the meaning of committement ???
anyways, friendly and humble request .. that marrige is a sacred and it has been since the creation of a sacred pact - way of life.. take it seriously and live by it as its supposed to .... As muslims we should not be follwing what cultures tell you .. but rather Its our duty ..to look at the beautiful life of Prophet Muhammad SAW as to how he SAW treated his wifes and look at the beloved lifes of the the wifes of the Prophet SAW and hw they were obedient to the messenger SAW. We have soooooo many problems and issues .. because we have stop believing in islam and opted for an alternative .way of life ....
Again ..my objective for opeing this thread is not to have a bash at anyone .. but as a humble servent of Allah Almighty .. I talk from experience that ... marriage is one thing out of many what will keep you happy in this world and the heaafter.. your legacy lives on thru marriage... or your just gona be dead after 20 40 years and be knwn as a no body ..simple as that .. and if you wana be someone .. history through out time over and over tells that with every mans success, wife plays a major role .. and for the wife .. the mans duty is to support his wife in every aspect .. even respect and honor because your legacy/generation lives on only with the blessings from your wife.
so am sure .. this is what all of us want .. so why not Grow up ??
^^ I say the above comment ..with a very sad heart .. because .. in every sittuation i look or which ever thread i see in life1 .. theres NO ONE who quotes the life of a muslim wife or husband ...esp how the wifes of the Prophets, the wifes of Pious ppl.. nor does anyone mention how the Prophets, pious ppl acted towards their wives.. Its a shame that NO one learns or try to learn something from Islam ...and what do you really get .. like i was reading yesterday a coment someone made .. ''watch these drams that come on tv on how to deal with your MIL'' for goodness sake .. Is this what islam teaches you ???
LK ki ghaltii nahi hai .. in ki abhi shadi nahi hui and hes preparing .. by being happy and hw he will keep his msz happy .. by jumping up n down on the sofa
aur mey ney aik show mey suna tha key aik muslim larki fermaa rahi thi key larki ka strong character dehkna ho tou kashish ka dehko jis se kuch kehney ki himmat hi nahin hotii hero kee aur mey idher yehi sochti rahi zaahir hey jis larki key dramey mey hi 4 shohar hoangey us se koi larka kia keh sakey ga:@: humari qoam ko bohat achey tareeqey se indian media ney hijack kerliya hey key hum apney intehaai qaabil ehtraam rishtoan ko bhi un hi ki nazar se dehkney ki kosish kerrahey hein!