Re: I think Im going crazy
Daadey, I hope the comment wasn't directed at me, I was just playing around as it's cafe :(
^^^same here :(
No,
Acha suno, waisay I didn't read your replies, cuz it was not there while I was typing...
But, in the west and specially in USA / Canada ... we treat desi's really badly, we expect them as if they are born USAnians, and we expect them to adopt social culture on the day they get off the FISH or boat!
Yar its not possible, we are from a Muslim and Asian culture, which is a family based culture, where we live with our whole family and grands as well, we share not only food, but our happiness, joys and sorrows to each and every individual in the family, in our culture responsibilities are divided, not that every one in the family do all kind of works... its our culture!
So when we come to west we also inherited this culture in our blood, and its really hard to keep that away! ...
So my request is, please respect desis, regardless what they do, respect them, support them, teach them, and please don't make fun or insult them just because they are FOB... else after few years they will also be laughing at fobs when they will become non-Fob, we need to stop this culture, we need to redefine the structure! which should have a respect for all!