I think 90% of Inlaw threads are the fault of the Brides/Bride to Be

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Re: I think 90% of Inlaw threads are the fault of the Brides/Bride to Be

@stoppit

Uhm… when the people involved are adults, then I don’t think good parents make their children cry, no.

To the second part, I said sometimes. There are occasions where the MIl is prepared to for a DIL and to ensure the DIL does her DIL-ly duties, but she does not want a daughter. I have seen people explicitly say it.

Nobody willingly wishes for their children to cry, I won’t and I bet you don’t either. But at the same time, we cant really ignore the inevitable circumstances where it may just lead to it. After all we are humans, and humans do tend to make mistakes, often regrettable ones.

Pardon my ignorance, I stand corrected. Such MILS do exist, but I would fail to put them in the majority category. That is where they have predetermined plans of treating their DIL as a “parayaa” throughout.

Irrelevant bit perhaps, but I see a mother everyday who’s only daughter was married away quiet a few years back, today one of her most cherished wishes would be to find a daughter for one of her son’s, just so she could replace her (strictly in daughter for a daughter terms) with the one that she knew was going to go someday.