So I was trimming my beard, messed it up and then shaved it all off. It feel weird, probably cause I shaved yesterday after 2 years.
Now i have to go to school tomorrow and this teacher might get pissed(or not) that I shave it.
So I've decided not to meet him, until it grows a bit. To hell with checking my paper. Better a 'B' than a 'F'.
How'd you feel if someone you knew shaved his beard?
if u kept it as a sunnah and u messed it up by mistake then i guess it wont be too hard for ur teacher or friends to understand.
If i would be you, i wont runaway from the situation, i wud probably go straight to him and accept my mistake, yes probably i will get lect (as you mentioned) but trust me getting lect's from parents/teacher ain't a bad thing at all, there's alwz some sort of lesson to be learnt from them. Its just you have to have a positive attitude and positive frame of mind.
The first one was a religious one. The second one wasn't, the third didn't start out as a religious beard but it turned into one. Right now I'm taking a break from religion. I don't like lectures I disagree with(strongly).
keeping a beard clean and maintained is also important, just tell them while you were trying to trim it to keep it neat, you had an accident and damaged your beard badly, and sadly had to just shave it to start again.
If you are afraid that your teacher may not buy this and it could have a very adverse impact on your grade then yes, avoid him
if your friends will have an issue with you, then get rid of them, you should be more important to them than whether you had to shave the beard, by accident, or even intentionally.
Yeah! I'm not getting rid of him. Not like he's going to kill me or anything. I guess he's truly concerned cause deep down he believes I'm going to HELL.
I don't smoke weed or any kind of drugs for that matter.
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iif u kept it as a sunnah and u messed it up by mistake then i guess it wont be too hard for ur teacher or friends to understand.
If i would be you, i wont runaway from the situation, i wud probably go straight to him and accept my mistake, yes probably i will get lect (as you mentioned) but trust me getting lect's from parents/teacher ain't a bad thing at all, there's alwz some sort of lesson to be learnt from them. Its just you have to have a positive attitude and positive frame of mind.
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^^ agreed with what sarmad wrote Taubah ker kay doobara rakh lo.
It would also be unislamic for your teacher to have change your grades based on your appearance.
if your friends will have an issue with you, then get rid of them, you should be more important to them than whether you had to shave the beard, by accident, or even intentionally.
think about it
Never leave a friend who is concerned about you eeman.