I sent him lunch..

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Talking about my Mr.Handsome here (the guy I like but he doesn’t know that I like him coz I’ve never told him, but we’re real good friends), I decided to do somethign special for him, just like that.

So I sent him his favourite mexican dish from his fav resturant, it was delivered to him at his office and I didn’t leave my name…but I gather 15 mins after the supposed delivery time he called me up and asked me if it was me…followed by thank yous and “OMG I can’t believe you did that”…he was genuinely and pleasantly surprised..said “lets go out sometime next week”..sounded like a 5 years old on Christmas morning. I was happy. :slight_smile:

Anyhow..we talk almost everyday..or every other day, the next day I call up for our usual chat and that was the last time we spoke…it’s been a week now…no sign from him…and no he isn’t out of the country or anything.

Did I scare him?

feels very crappy

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I guess you won't know what's up until you ask him. Is it time to tell him you like him cause he may be picking up on it himself.

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I was going to tell him in about 3 weeks time but this sudden scilence has me a bit worried.

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Why wait 3 weeks? Maybe this is the opportunity to tell him now. Are you afraid of ruining a friendship and you're trying to stall? Maybe he's just waiting for your next move.

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did u try calling him or checking up on him at his work?

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girl sending a surprise lunch to a guy. thats so nice of ya. hez a loser for not appreciating u.

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Why haven't you called him? He might be thinking the same thing?

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He wud get scared and creeped out.. :bummer:

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having read the thread.... these words came to mind i recently heard

**aap ko kis tarah main bataon, kab kahan aur kaise dil diya **

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… :k:

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He called...back to normality..but the "hey thanx for the lunch..lets go out sometime" promise has been forgotten i think...anyhow

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guys can be weird :-/

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I know :bummer:

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AWW LK plz don't feel that way, its ok.
Guys can be moron and yes they r. The thing is IF u r the first one to approach a guy then that guy i guess start expecting from u more in a way that u should be the first one to do almost everything.

Try calling him and cheking up on him and ask him how is he doing. Who knows he might be waiting for ur call :)

Come on cheer up honey, and try calling him :)

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maybe he good food poisoning from the lunch..

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LK, I would too never want to eat mexican food next to one I loved. All those beans can really screw up the 'romance in the air'

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He Might be Deported, call him in his Home country:D

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^ :hehe:

guys she is serious, dont joke around with her feelings!

Shia - Sunni Unity , One god , One religion , One ummah!
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LK, call him,

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Conchita! kiss muah :D

girl love the idea totally rocked... but my friend since guy isnt taking that step why dont you take the next one.. simply call him up

"yo waz up man"
" What part of this you dont get it? i sent you lunch and we talked. Are you really dumb that you cant see i am interested in you. Be a man tell me whether you like me or not"

before you get to involved find out if there is any interest on the other side...