zobia,
you must be kidding me, right? You can't make everyone happy and put a smile on their faces. You don't remain "you", you become people pleaser and that is .......
no, this approach will make you insaan. nothing is impossible!
your problem is you are scared to take any step. you over think and over stress yourself to a limit that not only your started considering yourself a philosopher, but also turning into a total loser.