re: I said no to marriage with my cousin - and getting emotional blackmail…
you just have to bear it…don’t let your parents get u to do something stupid…just tell them you don’t want it…and thats final…and after that whatever they want to do…its for them to decide whether they want to throw you out of the house or whatever…don’t take the first step/leave them on ur own…
things will be difficult once you get to pakistan…just gotta be patient and bear it…hopefully your parents will come around soon…they are trying all the things they got to try to convince you…when they understand that you have a final NO as an answer…i think they will stop this…goodluck!
Guys who say no face ‘equal pressure’…so just try to focus on your own problem and not worry about the society as a whole…that won’t do you any good.
Peace!