I Ridicule anyone, I become like him!

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My uncle used to make fun of one of our elder relatives that she speaks very fast. He used to copy her to make people laugh, but after some time her talking style improved and my uncle started speaking so fast that none of us used to understand even a single word he said. Now he is fed up of this problem because in his office and home people keep asking him to repeat himself. Some of them get angry for wasting their time while others make fun of him. He says that he tries a lot to speak slow but can’t. I wish he says sorry to that woman so that Allah (swt) relieve him of this problem, which might be a divine punishment. Allah knows BEST.

It reminds me of a saying " When a person makes fun of another person, Allah swt puts the same flaw in that person’s personality on which he was laughing at"

May Allah (swt) forgive us and bless us with the wisdom to be able to develop sincerity for others instead of ridiculing them. May Allah (swt) forgive me if I ever made fun of anyone intentionally or unintentionally.

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Re: I Ridicule anyone, I become like him!

and that's up for a debate/discussion?

Thanks for sharing!

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Does this woman know that your uncle used to make fun of the way that she speaks? I think according to Islamic guidelines.....your uncle has 2 options. He can go up to this woman and apologize for making fun of her behind her back. If the woman has NO IDEA that your uncle used to make fun of her.....and if he feels that such a confession will have a negative impact on family relations.....then the other option is for him to ask Allah for forgiveness and make dua for the person that he hurt.

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no offense but:

I dnt have a beard but sometimes make fun of those kids that do, cos it doesnt suit some people and makes them look like akward beasts.

does it mean ill get a big beard?

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ur right RAW
ek family friend ki zubani baat hai ke woh apne kisi classmate ka mazaak kia karta tha (when they were kids).woh larka haklata tha. ek dafa uss ne uss larke ki nakal utari to woh larka ro para.
mere family friend ne bataya ke tab se aaj tak woh khud bhi haklata hai, sivaye QURAN PAK parhte hue.
humein kisi ka mazaak nahin urana chahiye, ALLAH Naraaz Hotey Hain.
Unhon ne jis tarha jis insaan ko bhi banaya hai,its HIS own wish.
We shouldnt make fun of it.
ALLAH HUM SAB KO APNE HIFZ O AMAAN MEIN RAKHEIN-

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no amir-pindi g, you shouldnt do that, ALLAH ko darhi pasand hai, how can you make fun of it?
if iam not wrong its also sunnat.
so ALLAH sey mafi maango, aur apna point of view change karo. ke kis baat peh hasna chahiye aur kis peh nahin.
thnx

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Re: I Ridicule anyone, I become like him!

AMIR JI
BURA MAT MANANA PLZ, just trying to make you understand a point.
thnx

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I know...

bura nai manaa. I knw its sunnat and all. God Pls forgive me 4 mi stupid things.

But, i understnd evrything in islam, except this dari concept.

I mean lets just b hnest for a sec. It looks hiddeous a lot of the time.

I mean nabi paks.time, sahabies all were beatiful anything on them is and was beatiful. and that time had its own customes traditions, looks etc.

it is knowned even the sweat of nabi pak smeeled like itter.

But nowadays, sme muslims living in west are just so extreme with huge hair coming all out of thier face, it just isnt right, i cnt help it but i get extremly put off by beardy men.

I mean if u wanna keep it, keep it trim, short and neat . One has to look at the time and place they r living in.
I mean if u live in saudi then by allmeans do it all u want.
Bt often the extremists of our relgion project a negative opposed to positive impression of islam.

Some men have it growing out to and from all over thier face...it looks unnice.

i mean girls have so much emphasis to look all beautiful and pretty,etc for thier husbnds.

i tried keeping a beard, firstly it doesnt suit me, secondly it itches, makes my face hot, and overall very uncomfortable, and less presentable.

so im clean shaven, and alhumdulillah look beautiful in it.

so why do molvis harass me to keep beard. I went to umra, my molvi seniors put up a hard frnt to brainwash me to grow my beard. ( i did it infrnt of them, shved it off return home..heehee)

I think theres more emphasis nowadays on trivials like beards, ankle trosuer levels, than the farz things of namaz, good charecter, honesty etc.

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hmmmmm :hmmm: me commenting will jus start a huge fight

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^ Share what you sincerely feel to be true, don't care about people.

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in simple words-- if u have 100% faith in Islam u would'nt use an excuse such as a western culture to not follow Islam.

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MashaAllah 110% Agree with you. :thumbsup:

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Which version of Islam? Saudi, Taliban, Al-Qaeda, Pakistani, Indian, or Western Islam?

Example:
In west Muslims can do whatever they like... ex. education, wear different clothes, talk openly about anything....., but you can't say same about so called Islamic Countries !

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umm-- last time i recall- in pakistan- most people go to colleges, universities (that coveres ur education), all women in pakistan dont cover their heads, and dress how ever they want- and yes, in pakistan talking openly is what people are best at doing now-- and im talking about pakistan not all islamic countries.

i guess u misunderstood my point but i was just saying- as

amir_pind said ---quote---"I mean if u wanna keep it, keep it trim, short and neat . One has to look at the time and place they r living in.
I mean if u live in saudi then by allmeans do it all u want."

So what- if u live in america DO IT AS WELL- freedom of religion here- No 1 will stop u- if u have faith in Islam then u wouldnt look at the outside world- u would focus more on what Islam say's not what the western culture thinks how long or short, how neat or messy it is. Do it for Allah (SWT) not for others. that was my point- firenze =)

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My point is Islam got raped & confused by Mullahs, un-educated lot, rule of kings/prince/princess... blah blah. What is true Islam? After Allah, Prophet (PBUH), Quran... we starting to have differences... sects are came in ..heads are chopped off on differences..

Its not all fine !

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what goes around comes around.

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What's not fine is you having no manners and TAMEEZ on how to talk about the greatest religion ever, Islam. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Your badtameezi shows that you are the head master of that "un-educated lot" you mentioned in your post.

You drive your Benz at 90MPH in 35PMH zone, you lose control, hit a tree and die on the spot. Am I to blame Benz ?

Same way you can't show your disgust about Islam based on how Muslims are today.

Do Lamhay Jaan Leva Thay . .
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Look flag barrier of Islam, where did i say anything against Islam the greatest religion ever, read the post , come again !

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With no offense it is better to say, Islam got misunderstood *& confused,that too by *some Mullahs, not all. At times I also make such mistakes unintentionally, but our words might give an impression of degradation to some viewers even though it is clear that your intentions were sincere with no aim of disgracing it.

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Rape is 100% fine, one example can be Fazal-ur-Rehman a Pakistani politician. When Mullahs use Islam for anarchy, disobedience, chopping off heads by the hands of 12 years old. Then its 100% fine word.

Anyway if you feel offended, sorry !

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