Re: I Regret....
well in islam after asking for divorce you have 3 months period at the end of which both of you can decide if you still want a divorce...if you are still in that 3 month period you have the option of going back (but you will not have the same position of respect you once held in your husband's eyes)
and if that three month period has ended and you guys are officially and religiously divorced...you dont even have the option of getting back together with him unless and until you are remarried and your 2nd husband divorces you of his own free will (i.e. he wasnt pressurized by you or you had not talked about the fact that you wanted to go back to your first husband and you were marrying him because you wanted him to divorce you)
isiliye mothers apni bachiyon ko sikhaati hain: (1) never to think abou divorce, (2) never be the one asking for it and (3) go to **any **lengths to make compromises and not let little issues get so big that they destroy your marriage... pehli marriage may compromises karlo please because when and if you become inflexible and dont go to great lengths to save your marriage and you get married a second time... trust me you will make compromises that you never even thought possible in your second marriage simply due to the fear of being divorced a second time...so why not work as hard on the first marriage? after all marriage is not a walk in the park...it requires hard work time effort patience and a LOT of compromises
ek aur baad islam mein three baar three different times pe divorce di jaaiye toh divorce final hoti hai if this is just the first time then you have the option of going back if he agrees to it