well YES i do may be for fun or just to sort out some minor problems, but should i really?
i dont have any big psyci prob but seek help on interview issuresn body language as i ll be up for interviews in two months time.
have any body undergone the therapy by psycologist?
how it was n should i go to them?
What are your reasons for seeing a psychologist? For interview techniques? If its just for interview techniques I dont think they would really be able to advise you well.
If its for psychological/behavioral issues then they would be able to assist you. Like for example if you have fear of speaking in public, they would go into reasons you have those fears, what to do about them, etc.
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What are your reasons for seeing a psychologist? For interview techniques? If its just for interview techniques I dont think they would really be able to advise you well.
If its for psychological/behavioral issues then they would be able to assist you. Like for example if you have fear of speaking in public, they would go into reasons you have those fears, what to do about them, etc.
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well i dont have BIG thing to trouble me at all
its just about concentration n little bit on public speaking.
also the one of my main problem is that i speak too fast becuz of which the listner thinks i m murmuring. i want to get rid of this
Don’t go to a psychologist man…Psychology is a bogus science which has the tendency to aggravate the symptoms you want a cure for…Remember, psychologists themselves have the second highest suicide rate after paramedics…
As for your speaking, one of the greatest Prophets, Hazrat Musa :as: suffered from stuttering…Can you imagine carrying the word of Allah :swt: and changing the fate of a people while not being able to speak coherently?
Have faith in Allah :swt:…It is never how or who says something, it’s what being said that matters…If you utter something with conviction, not matter how it sounds, it will get the message across…
As for public speaking, I took a course in it, and according to my teacher every person who ever has anything worthwhile to say will be shy of saying it, for his or her words will be weighed in by caution…
Even our Holy Prophet :saw: is said to be shyer than a veiled virgin in her boudoir…So whatever you say, however it comes out, let it be…It’s part of you so be comfortable with it…
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well i dont have BIG thing to trouble me at all
its just about concentration n little bit on public speaking.
also the one of my main problem is that i speak too fast becuz of which the listner thinks i m murmuring. i want to get rid of this
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ophiolites, I think a psychologist can be very helpful to some people, but I dont think your situation is one where they would be of a lot of help. This is just my personal opinion. I think what would help you more is to take speech classes and classes in public speaking. This is because once you are practising it, you will get feedback from the audience, and people often reassess their behavior or become more aware of it when others are giving input to it.
I also suffer from concentration problems, but unless I want to be given medication for it, which I do not, I dont plan on seeing a psychologist.
Munni n Lajawab
i think this idea won’t peep in to my mind untill i have some money as the money i had for this purpose is alread y used to go on a recreational trip with geologists
