hello,i donno i shud write it here ornot, but i feel so bad,
why i am alone? nobody to love me? i am very talktive and i full of life,but it seems that everything has finsihed for me. i was mad abt him n he ditched me. we met on net,n we were crazy abt each other.(dont go on telling me how can i trust a person).u need not to trust a person after judging him.
n today i feel so lonely,nobody in my life,i keep on crying.wat to do abt my life
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Give it time. I guaranteee that you'll feel better in a year.
Re: i neef help,i need ppl
hello,i donno i shud write it here ornot, but i feel so bad,
why i am alone? nobody to love me? i am very talktive and i full of life,but it seems that everything has finsihed for me. i was mad abt him n he ditched me. we met on net,n we were crazy abt each other.(dont go on telling me how can i trust a person).u need not to trust a person after judging him.
n today i feel so lonely,nobody in my life,i keep on crying.wat to do abt my life
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i know it wont, they keep on telling me to be happy, n i try, but he comes in between.i try making frenz going out but nuthing works...i wud go mad...... i just got a scolding frommy frend saying that if i wud not forget himhe wud not want to be my frend, n then he switched off his cellphone
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Wait a moment? You're still talking to him?
That's mistake number one. You can no longer be friends with him. Don't even try.
Cut him out of your life.
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dont say that man, i understand what she is going through:(
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You better start taking classes in english language...hmmmmm
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You think you have it bad? Plenty more fish for you guys in the sea… How do you think I feel not being able to tell the one I love out of fear of rejection/society, at least you can express your feelings.
[/DELETE] What was I thinking pouring my heart out to you lot? 
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Ooooh CCB! I love you toooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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**That’s quite cruel and insensitive. Not everyone is brought up in England or Canada or the States that they have perfect English. The person posting seems to be very upset and in a lot of pain; if you’ve nothing constructive to say then you ought to keep quiet.
Asma, I can’t say much to help you quit feeling so bad, but here’s a hug 
I know it doesn’t help but these feelings iwll go away. We all go through heartbreak at one point or another in our lives; it’s practically a prerequisite. Pray to Allah to ease your pain. :)**
Re: i neef help,i need ppl
Distract yourself with something you like to do. Especially if he's from the internet, you'll forget about him easily.
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if you stop talking to him and he really wants to be with you i'm sure he will start calling. but i suggest you stop thinking about him and move on with your life...there are plenty of other guys out there...maybe even better then the one you are obsessed with right now.
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Jaao chullu bhar paani mein doob marron. Rolla khatam kar......aa jatay hein uth kar layla majnooon ban kar
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Well, whatever you do, don’t go looking for help outside your own culture. someone I know very closely once had problems, very different from yours and kind of the opposite, she went for help outside our own culture and instead of helping her, they destroyed her further. So whatever you do, don’t do that. There has actually been given some good advice here you can use.
Also, not to bring you down or anything, and not trying to play your granny, meeting someone on chat to start a relationship, I don’t know, maybe not such a good idea? (if you are looking for a life partner, why don’t you subscribe with a marriage bureau or something, everybody has to register there and I think that is a lot safer) If you chat, chat about different interesting topics. When someone starts flirting or gets too close, ignore that person. I think that is saver. I don’t know if you are a Muslim or not, but this is a severe warning for anyone:
(source:http://sisters.islamway.com/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=276)
A Cry from A Chat Victim
Posted byAdministrator on Tuesday, June 24 @ 18:07:45 ??
Contributed by Administrator
Translated By IslamWay Sisters
Q & A from www.Saaid.net
A Girl Wrote an email saying:
Assalam Aleikom wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh I hope you can be of use to me in this problem: I’m a 17 year old Arab girl living in an Arab country and still in high school.
Unfortunately, I learned about the internet yet, I misused it and spent my days chatting with guys and watching prohibited websites
(I did such things behind my parents back and no one knew about them) even though I used to be religious and hated girls who chatted with guys.
I then got to know a 21 years old guy-through the “Messenger” living in the same country but of different nationality and we went on chatting till we exchanged true and untainted love “just for the sake of Allah”.
He used to educate me about teachings of religion and lead me to righteousness and guidance. He allowed me to see him through a camera, we sometimes prayed together.
Later he started to show me parts of his body which in return caused me to become an addict to the secret habit. Such situation went on for a month in which we learned a lot from each other. We maintained voice chatting and when I trusted him I allowed him to see me, my hair and most of my body parts through the computer camera. My love for him grew more and I thought only of him and nothing else to the extent that I couldn’t concentrate in my studies, consequently causing my level of educational pursuit to decline.
He then told me about where he lived and so did I. I called him on his mobile a while after that and checked the validity of the information he gave me. He said he wanted to marry me, I agreed to his proposal for marriage, although I’m supposed to marry my cousin, yet I’m now so afraid of my parents’ disapproval especially after he started to threaten me saying: “If you leave me I’ll disgrace you and spread your pictures”! Also he said:" I’ll cal you using the numbers you dialed to reach me and tell your folks all about you."
When I discussed this matter with him he said that it was just threats yet I feel that he is not threatening me and that he’s really going to do something, and now I’m thinking seriously of leaving him and returning to the path of Allah.
My parents are Muslims and religious and if they knew that I’m in love with a guy and actually in contact with him they’re gonna kill me( by “kill” I mean beating and humiliating) to avoid the scandal and bad reputation.
I don’t know what to do! I’m so scared;
I want guidance;
I want to be happy and safe;
I’m sick of thinking and feeling scared.
Please help me. Because of this problem I quit praying; I quit worshiping in general because I’m bored and desperate with my life; my sisters’ reputation and futures-as well as mine- will be destroyed if I don’t die, and I want to, today before tomorrow.
I want to leave him but I fear the scandal. He will call back so how can I stop him? Will Allah forgive me if I return to his path? What are the conditions of repentance and how should I repent and?
I fear that I may go back to what I used to do? Where’s the way out?
How could I get rid of my addict to the secret habit? And now that I suffer from sexual frigidity, how can I treat it without my parents knowing about it?
I seek your reply so bad; don’t throw my mail away.
Please help me as soon as you can; there’s no one else to help me; please help me, please.
The sister’s message is over; a message that is truly rich with lessons and examples Is anyone out there willing to learn?
I shall pause at her saying: ("… we exchanged true and untainted love, “just for the sake of Allah”) The problem is that every girl thinks that the guy who tries to hit on her is her dream prince and the fulfiller of her dreams, while he is actually the prince who brings failure, the maker of sorrows and the destroyer of hopes. She pictured such love to be (… true and untainted love…) but she smells the rotten of it all before the end of the story; and he appears to be a stereotype of those wolves who care for nothing except fulfilling their desires. The hopes are vanishing and the pains are aching and there he is threatening her saying: “If you leave me I’ll disgrace you and spread your pictures”! Is this true and a “for the sake of Allah” kind of love?! This is the American way of love!
She says: “I’m so scared; I want guidance; I want to be happy and safe; I’m sick of thinking and feeling scared” Wasn’t she at peace and overwhelming bliss, following the path of guidance and performing her prayers before stepping into the hellish land of “Chat”? Why is she scared now? Why did she quit praying? It’s the ominous of disobedience that deprived her of the pleasure of obedience. What was she looking for in “Chat” vaults? Looking For happiness? She is left now screaming “I want to be happy and safe”.
How weird the following words are:" My parents are Muslims and religious and if they knew that I’m in love with a guy and actually in contact with him they’re going to kill me to avoid the scandal and bad reputation (by “kill” I mean beating and humiliating)" All this happened while the parents where inattentive to their child; they’ve been so careless and so wasting of the Trust. It’s the ultimate confidence that parents have specifically in young ladies which results in such a disaster. A father may say: “I have sheer blind trust in my daughters and my unmarriageable relatives in general”. They’re no better than Mothers of the believers, nonetheless Allah Exulted and Majestic be He said about their ethics:
" O Consorts of the Prophet! ye are not like any of the (other) women: if ye do fear (Allah), be not too complaisant of speech, lest one in whose heart is a disease should be moved with desire: but speak ye a speech (that is) just";
and Said about the Believers’ ethics towards them:
" And when ye ask (his ladies) for anything ye want ask them from before a screen"
Why did He say that?" that makes for greater purity for your hearts and for theirs".
Is anyone out there willing to learn?
“Verily in this is a Message for any that has a heart and understanding or who gives ear and earnestly witnesses (the truth).”[Chapter 50, verse 37]
This message has been mailed to me and I took permition from the sister to publish it, and so I did with the exception her nationality.
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Reflect on where you made mistakes and try not to repeat them.
Do you live alone? Where are your parents, your siblings, your friends?
Stop believing in movies. They are just that and no more.
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Keep yourself occupied with other things and you'll get over it in a few years time :)
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thats very comforting Starsky.... a couple of years is a long time!
LydiaQuereshi...we have a star here:)
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THANKS ALL OF U,
when i wrote this msg,i was in depression,severe depression,.....its not that i dont try to come out of it...n i m still trying.....
i live wid my parents.....but i m not close to them......but again i have told everything to my elder sister(she is married),....even my cousins know abt him.....
i read sadya's mail...n thank ALLAH that i was not on that path....MY MANN(THAT GUY) was a nice guy....not the ordinary types...he left me or we are nolonger together coz it was destined to happen.....but i m fine........
n at last i wud esp. wanna thank ldydia qureshi coz u have ben very supportive...
P.S- i dont watch movie n i m not even a couch potato