i need to get rid...

ok.. ya soo i m working in this bank and dis guy Y at ma job he is our instructor and he helps in evrything… guyz i m having biggg crush on him he z 30 i m 19 it doesnt make sense i knw… he knws me he is really kool… but i dont want anything b/w us… and i dnt want him to knw dat… whnevr i see him ma head hurts… i dnt knw wht to doo really…

any suggestion plzz.. and dnt tell me dat jus go n tell him DUH i dont wanna tell him i knw i m like 11 yrs younger thn him.. but i dnt wanna be after him.. i even have no idea if he z single… btw i m confused i dont knw anything abt him except dat he came here whn he was 4 and the neighbourhood he lives in :hayaa:

and tomorrow m gonna see him again i m sooo frkng happy :frowning:

i m really confuzed one time i think oohh heee is kool n caring and loving… anthr time i think its impossible cause of the age difff… and may be dere z lot of diff b/w us.. may b he z not sunni ohh Gosh m stuck :crying:

today he asked the quest i was lookig at him i knw the answer is no ma head was shaking cause the answer was no… he wanted me to say no and den i was like NO… lol it was hillarious and stupid cause i was looking at him and even didnt knw dat he wants me to answer him… ahhh

today he said us all of u are like his kids ohh ma God… i was like…

ohhh m soo upset

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quit

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lol impossible… further m gonna see him for nex 2 months… nooo its a very big deal for me i cant tell ma parents dat i wannna quit bcoz of dis lame reasonn… they will be like r u crazyyy… :bummer:

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a 30 yr old saying "ur like his kids"

that's so odd

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@sadzz dnt u think dat... he doesnt wanna show anything plz say yesss

think of him as your father as he already call you kid…

get him “i love you father” greeting card .. definitely will work :k:

now good luck !

noo lol i called him bhaii and his face was like ummmm… thn he was like ummm sure but he wasnt comfortable…

i dont wanna call him bhai or father :bummer:

Lol…this is so cute. dont worry, it will pass. Its just a crush. But if you are serious about it, try to find out abt him..if he has a wife/kids etc…chances are, if hes not single, the crush will die…and if not, well ur only working for 2 months so it wont matter!

Not really…maybe he just meant it in a joking way at work..

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I thought u wntd a doctor :smack:

arreee…first find out about him…u know…stuff..like if he is what ever u need a guy to be in his personal life…e.g. sunni or something else..as I am sure this is a huge factor!!!

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It's a crush. Don't worry about it. Just try to ignore it.

Don't teachers call their students their kids? He's your instructor, that's probably how he meant it.

Try to find a 20 year old to crush on instead.

^ Soundi’s right!

Be proactive…ask the hot instructor if he has a hot kid brother. :hmmm:

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The kid comment is just because of the setting...he is a teacher and you're the student. He is responsible for training you and that might be the reason he said that.

Anyway, its a crush. Nothing more than that.

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@ alya ya i wanted to get married wid doc actually still i want to get married wid some doc… lol i dnt knw… i think he is sunni lol

lol rv i think he z the yungst 1 lol… i rally liked the advices u gave me… but i need sometime to get over dis… but m soo happy dat m gonna see him tmre… i m feeling like
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@ sara lol ya it sounds cute but its not cute :bummer: i knw its jus a crush bu still m gonna see him for nex 2 months… i wish kuch na hooo

Yup. I teach. I call my students "my kids"..."my students"...."my boys"..."my girls". Nothing surprising about it at all, Bella.

lol i havent told anyone dat omg i m having crush on him i m not stupid... but i knw m sure the way i m acting is making him to think dat i m real idiottt

lol m not surprised rv but it made me laugh... he is dasi but he doesnt knw much urdu he was like ye sab mere bachey hain i was like awww soo cute thn i was like nooo

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awww this is so cute :hugz:

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:hayaa: is it… does it not sound really weird i dnt think dat m gonna sleep tonite cause m too excited :frowning:

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It's a cute story, but be careful. I wouldn't want you getting hurt over this.