Guys i need help and advice-I ve dillema…I ve relationship with my boy 4 more than yr and at stiil we cant live together.Yesterday we had a conflict coz u see he cant to study with a girl next at him…So next 4 yrs it seems that we ll not marry!But im as well student.And i want to be support 4 him and his studies.I was thinking 2 tk a brake…actualy i think about that all that all time.I love him v much but the way lk we having relationships brakes my heart.he is telling me that i need to wait.but its enough:crying: .People tell me should i tk a brake?How can i help in his studies?How can i make him able to study next at me
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Don't give up your education. Relationships aren't forever, but education is, and it will be your biggest strength, not some guy.
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sister o sister what in the world did u just say?
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You seriously need a break. Let the poor guy study and may be you also should worry about your school.
Marriage should only take place when both the man and woman agree to accept the responsibilities that come with it. If either one is hesitant then it is not the right time so you can wait 4 years or if you are too desperate find another guy who is ready to accept the responsibility.
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^ I ll never give up education.It allways ll be previouslythe most important.But oh,my God it is F**king har for me to be away of that guy.But thanks 4 ur care:)
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just how u mean it?
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Multinick Alert
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^ i gues so...thanks for help!
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Its ok missagate. After reading it a couple of times and seeing the responses I think I get ur problem. I have seen a lot of ppl getting married and continuing their studies after marraige. Not a big deal really. But u have to realise that where studying with him may help u focus, for him you may be a distraction. If you keep pestering him to study with u, u might even push him away and thats surely the last thing u want. Let him focus on his studies and finish ur own off too and then get married. I guess studies after marraige isn;t everyone’s piece of cake.
Speaking of cake I just had some yummilicious cake with strawberries, kiwis, pineapple on the side 
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have you read what u wrote? and u think taking a 'brake' from him is your biggest problem?
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U can’t live together because ur not married rite, but he doesn’t want to get married before he’s finished school? I think maybe he’s being practical, he knows he needs to have something to show for when he goes to ask for ur rishtaa…
I don’t understand the part about U taking a break…either u both keep studying until the time is suitable for both of u to get married, if that seems like too long then discuss if a formal engagement is possible…that’s one step forward at least…otherwise, if u want to take a break cos ur tired from school then that’s another thing and it mite be the right thing to do if ur exhausted and then after a couple of terms u can come back more refreshed…
U can help him in his studies by encouraging him to keep going, rather than putting marriage pressures on him…studying next to u? not sure wot u mean there…like physically haha, then o well study seperately…but if u mean both studying at the same time in the next 4 yrs, then i think it is certainly do-able…good luck 
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oooooooooooooo i be hatin u girl!
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I know you’re not pakistani but the guy is Pakistani.
from ur posts it seems like ur not english or american either (cuz ur english shows that)…then what country are u from?
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she is from ebonia
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that sounds nammy…
!thanks sister(if u dont mind that i call u lk that)…
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so in ebonomia or whtever do they speak english (or write in this case) like bengalis. ??
Can I slap you?
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bursting into laghter
Are you high?
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i never asked him 2 give me more attention than studies.when we are 2gether he always wants to hug me and stuff like that.i dont know what 2 do with him(or what i can do) couse it is more than important 4 me that he is studying good.because we have the same goals in our lives and we going 2 reach it 2gether.and i hope he understand it.i already told him that im not here with him 4 just 2 have a fun in this life.i know where is the problem why we cant marry right now-luck of money…well but it ll nver be enough.so is it excuse? right now we live in latvia but i dont want 2 marry here(actualy im latvian) but in pakistan.and it will take extra money 2 get marry in pakistan.