hey everyone.
I need some advice to pass on to a friend, im caught in the middle aswell in away and i feel a bit of pressure on my shoulders too and i cant actually think straight!
I have very good family friends there are 3 sisters. The eldest sister is away doing research in malaysia for a few months . The middle sister is at uni but living at home, and the youngest sister is going off to study medicine at a very good uni in london very soon.
The middle sister…her engagement (love marriage) recently broke the guy was an absolute idiot…the reason the engagement broke was because his family called her and said because of you our son doesnt see us anymore he doesnt come home hes changed etc etc she became very upset and her ex finace didnt really care and a week after their break up he was dating other girls. GOOD BYE HIM i said and was happy for her.
However this girl is having a mental break down without hims he cant function has gone into a depression and is contsantly keeping in touch with him, he hasnt taken her back but she still keeps giving and giving just to keep herself happy through short term gain.
Ive told her soo many times hes not good for her and she has stopped talking to me about him now ( we used to talk openly everyday) and she just says how she feels lonely and stupid and depressed.
Today she tells me she had a massive fight with her mum because her mum doesnt understand and she feels her mum doesnt care and she thinks her sister doesnt care and is arrogant because she got into good uni and she hates everyone and everything.
Her big sister calls me from malaysaia in a massive stress and panic asking me whats going on why is her sister wanting to move out why is she going back to this guy what can we do which put extra pressure on me!
I just need some adivce, advice i can pass on to the middle sister and how to tackle this situation.