Does anyone know any good site that can clear all issues related muslim marriage or sex in Islam.
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Hi 21stcentury, I don't know of any good websites on sex in islam, but regarding marriage - a friend of mine sent me this "Questions to ask prosepective marriage partner"
[FONT=Maiandra GD]The following questions are offered in the interest of helping Muslims to think through issues important to marriage. You may wish to ask these questions when you’re considering someone for marriage, either of them or just of yourself. You may also wish to ask them of an intermediary, who may be able to provide you an unbiased perspective. Some of the questions may seem "unIslamic", but they deal with the reality of today's social situation, and NOT asking a question may ultimately prove to be a bigger mistake than asking it.
[FONT=Maiandra GD]GENERAL QUESTIONS:
- Why are you interested in marrying at this time?
- How would you describe yourself?
- What do you consider your greatest achievement to date?
- Describe three experiences you’ve had that you’ve benefited/learned from.
- What has been the hardest obstacle you’ve faced thus far in life? How has it affected you?
- If there was one thing you would like to change about yourself, what would it be?
- What are your goals for this life? What would you like to accomplish before you die?
- What are you looking for in a spouse?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]DECIDING WHETHER TO MARRY:
- What role do you think parents should play in helping to select your spouse?
- What process do you want to use to determine whether you have found the right spouse? Phone? E-mail? Chaperoned or unchaperoned in person? How much time do you want to decide?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]DEEN (ISLAMIC LIFESTYLE):
- What do you do to feel close to Allah (swt)?
- How to you hope to get closer to Allah (swt) through marriage?
- What do you want to improve about yourself Islamically?
- How many times per day do you pray? What about while at work?
- How much Qur’an have you memorized?
- To what extent are you involved in the Islamic community?
- Do you fast during Ramadan?
- How do you determine how to distribute Zakat? How do you give in Sadaqa?
- Have you been on Hajj or Umrah? When would you like to go?
- Are you affiliated with a particular masjid or Islamic group?
- How important do you think it is to only eat Halal meat?
- How important do you think it is for women to wear hijab? What about men?
- How do you like to celebrate religious holidays?
- Do you go for jummah prayers?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]LIVING AS A MUSLIM MINORITY:
- Do you have non-Muslim friends?
- What do you think Muslims should do on American holidays?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]EXTENDED FAMILY:
- What do you think parents/extended family’s role should be in making important decisions: wedding planning, child rearing, vacations, where you will live?
- What do you do if there is a conflict between your spouse and your family?
- Are you comfortable living with extended family, particularly as they age? Are other accomodations possible?
- How much time do you anticipate spending with your extended family, in person or by phone?
- Would you describe the character of your family members?
- What have you learned from observing your family that you do or do not want to incorporate into your marriage?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]PROFESSION:
- What career path do you plan on taking?
- Will both husband and wife work outside the home?
- Under what conditions would you be willing to move to further your or your spouse’s professional growth?
- How much time do you spend at work?
- How do you plan to balance time at work and time with the family?
- What kind of business functions will you ask each other to host/attend?
- Would you encourage/support the idea of me going back to school for advanced degrees?
- How would we support ourselves if we both had to be in school?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]INTERESTS/ACTIVITIES:
- How do you like to spend your free time?
- How much time do you spend watching TV?
- What interests would you like to share with your spouse?
- How much time alone would you like to have?
- How do you feel about separate vacations? Business trips? Conferences?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]SOCIAL LIFE:
- How much time do you want to spend with friends? By yourself? As a couple?
- How would you feel about your spouse having friends of the opposite gender?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]WHERE TO LIVE:
- Where do you want to live? Why?
- Will you want to live near your extended family?
- Do you prefer city? Suburb? Countryside?
- Do you want to live in the U.S. or abroad?
- How important is it to live in a large Muslim community?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]CHILDREN:
- How many children do you want to have?
- When do you think you’ll be ready to have children?
- How will you distribute responsibility for child rearing? Diapering?
- What do you think it is important to teach children?
- What is your view on raising children? Do you spank?
- To what extent would you be willing to utilize family members, friends, baby sitters or day are to watch your children?
- How will you ensure your children have a good Islamic education?
- What would you do if you could not have children?
- Do you want your children to grow up bilingual? In what languages?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]MONEY:
- How many personal savings/checking accounts would you want?
- Who should be responsible for paying bills?
- What about prior assets?
- How will you determine how much should be spent on the household? On personal items? On charity?
- How much should either person be able to spend by themselves without consulting the other?
- How much should be paid out in maher (dowry)? Up front versus deferred?
- If we were on an uncomfortably tight budget, and your brother asked you for a generous loan for a third attempt at a start-up when the first two had failed, would you give it to him?
- What would be your top five criteria for developing a financial plan?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]LAST NAMES:
- Should the wife change her last name?
- What last name should the children carry?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]HOUSE:
- How do you feel about cleanliness, neatness and housework?
- How do you feel about knickknacks and artwork?
- Who is responsible for work around the house?
- What are the household chores you are used to doing?
- Have you ever lived alone? Have you ever had a roommate? Have you always lived with your parents?
- How do you feel about pets?
- What are your preferences in terms of food? Mostly from your own ethnic group, or a more diverse palate? Only home-made, or also convenience or from restaurants? Meat or vegetarian?
- If we were both working and we both got home about the same time, would you expect the wife to always be the cook?
- How do you feel about smoking?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]DIFFERENCES:
- What are your pet peeves?
- How should disagreements be resolved?
- How do you act when you get upset?
- How would you go about making you spouse happy when s/he was feeling down?
- What would you want your spouse to do if you disagreed about something?
- What if the disagreement is over an interpretation of Islam?
- Who would be your choice of arbiters, or how do you feel about arbitration?
- How do you feel about marriage counseling?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]MONOGAMY/FIDELITY/HONESTY:
- What are your views?
- What is your experience with families with a second wife?
- Will infidelity automatically end the marriage?
[FONT=Maiandra GD]CULTURE:
*]What role does culture play in your life?
I hope it helps
Re: I need site on sex in Islam.
such a big checking list 
is it some kinda formula to stay single til death??
Re: I need site on sex in Islam.
@ the title.
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LOL @ I know what thoughts went through Danny’s mind when he read the title
You pervert 
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This would put off marriage/sex for like another 10 years 
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We dont have sex in islam… 
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yeah we are all test tube babies 
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leaves-- before any1 notices
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There is a book called The Muslim Marriage Guide that should help.
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how i can get this book.
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^^ You can read it here: http://www.ymsite.com/books/tmmg/default.htm
or get it from amazon.com for less than $ 11.00
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Firstly 15th century or 21st Islam is same…
I think you must first define your perspective.
Today love marriage sex is drven by bollywood n
hollywood pronography take yur pick which version
Marriage concept is universal in all religions but Sex
Are you a moderate muslim or a hard core strict one.
You want western perspective or a eastern definition
A Moderate muslims version or Hardcore like Talibans.
Depends on where you live. Europe and US muslims do
live quite differently unlike our muslim families in Middle east.
Like HIjab and Abbayas and prayers and shying from men etc..
That will affect your actions Ms year 2025 wonder how it will be.
Get an english version of Quran and read it trust me you’ll love it
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^ I didnt know there was a hardcore taliban version of sex. what does it involve, ak47s?
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first i was moderate now i am hardcore strict muslim.
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There you go. Enjoy. 
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i wanna ask you lots of question about few things…
but let me send you a private message ok… 
hey it s in the quran! yes i remeber coming across it when i was readinh quran in enlglish translation
kahaaN saY khod kar nikaal liyaa yeh dhaagaa 