i need help

hi everyone…

hope ur ok…

ineed help guys…im engaged and my in laws are situated in pakistan and im in uk…

my m.i.l is soo nice to me…whenever anyone comes here shes always sending me things mostly clothes all lovely…somone in the family is going pakistan soon and i just dont know what to buy her…

well in this season i suppose i can send her sandal or somethng…im sending her a perfume her favourite one…i bought her shoes type sandle with a little heal its so nice but my fiance told me that she said if i am to send a sandle or anything thatit should be flat or really low…im gng to send her the shoe i already bought her and get her another flat sandle…i bought her something today from m &s its nice but had a tiny heal to it my mum also liked it but my elder sis came and said it wasnt very nice so i got double minded and went to next and got another pair…then i thought il show them both to my fiance and he can make a final choice…he chose the one from next!!!

im just really worried what if she doesn’t like it :frowning:

the 1 i got from next is golden colour with pearly type ball and stones on it…its ok but maybe its too over the top oh i dont know

shall i just send it and then tell her that her son made the final decision

sorry i know this must sound like such a stupid thread but im really conscience as to what his mum thinks of me (its love marriage) i just want all of his family to carry on giving mye that love…

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post the pix of both sandals

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im not sure how to post pix on this

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go to upload image on right hand side of page n rest is easy.

else send her wat ur fiance has picked. or if u can get same design in diff , more sober colour

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i cant upload it some reason

they didn't have any more in the shop funnily enough there was just 1 pair there and that happened to be her size...could that be a sign???

i could get black or silver if i was to order it online but dont have much time....i think im just going to send this and if she doesn't like it there not much i can do

it is comfy....heal is pretty low aswell...generally it is nice but qurstion is will she like it?!!

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always remember one thing while sending a gift to ur in-laws that they may or may not like it but u hav done ur part n thats more imp.

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love from heart doesnt need any material to prove it =)

even if you send something but what you like there shouldnt be any complain because its what you sent having care and affection on mind. If she really loves you she will accept anything you will send to her.

People who complain and brag lame reasons are those who actually have no love for the relation but for the material.

So dont worry whatever you send just have good mind while you buying and sending it.

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hmm yeah...because when i asked her what would u like...any particular prefrences she said i dont need anything if i did i would i ask openly u r my daughter....

just hope she likes it

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im sure she will like anything u choose, inshALLAH.