i need help? this is serious

Lifestyle Relationships
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i have a best friend for about 4 year. She is Indian and non- Muslim but that never bother me , but now in the semester of college she is acting very weird. one thing i loved about her in the past was her simplicity and innocently. Now she is completely changes , she has turn into a selfish person , who only cares about herself, she has a boyfriend , but she still want other guys attention.she lies to everyone about not having a boyfriend to make guy friends. she says that it’s just friendship , but now my argument with her is TELL THE GUY U HAVE BOYFRIEND THEN SEE IF THEY CAN BE YOUR FRIEND. SHE INTRODUCE THEM TO ME AND THEY WANT TO EVERYTHING ABOUT HER BUT I DON’T, WANT TO LIE OR HAVE SOMEONE POINT FINGER AT ME.
YOU GUYS THINK I SHOULD STILL FRIEND WITH HER,BE A PART OF HER LIE OR JUST LEAVE THE FRIENDSHIP.
BECAUSE I DON,T WANT ANYONE TO JUDGE ME BECAUSE OF THE KIND OF FRIEND I HAVE …( SRY I SOUND SELFISH)

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Re: i need help? this is serious

shinin salam adaab

is entirely upto you that you want to continue or end this relationship but i would like to pointout that everyone has gods and bads. Nobody is perfect wether indian or pakistani or anyone else

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if she is your friend and interested in more boys then is ok if iam in your place i would help her to find more and more

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Re: i need help? this is serious

you have two options. either cut off all relationship with her or talk to her that you dun feel comfertable about her ways. Have you spoken to her in this regard? If you dun want to break up your friendship with her then speak to her, and limit your friendship. You dun have to be freinds with ever other friend she has.

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sorry it is friendship instead of relationship

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i try talking to her but she doesn,t care she just says that she know what is she doing, see i don,t care what she does in her life all i care is i should not be involved.

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In that case, you have only one option. :chai: If the other person doesn’t care that what affect her actions would have on your friendship, then you should just break off. :chai:

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If you really value her friendship want to continue to have her around, then tell her simply that you love her but dont want to be a part of this lie.

Overall, she doesnt sound like a good influence. If she is looking for male attention, people pick up on that and start to label girls as such. They might start looking at you in the same light.

I would say distance yourself a little.

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whenever you see your friend at school.

turn and run.

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For next time, at this point you end the friend ship. NO need to fix other ppls issue. Unless you are asked to.

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a man is known by the company he keeps. some wise guy said it.

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^ Exactly!

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Re: i need help? this is serious

Can you lose your heart
through the internet?
Can you fall in love
though you've never met?

Infatuation
with words on a screen
Caring for someone
that you've never seen

You gave me your stats
(thirty-one, female)
You sent me a pic,
scanned via email

You're so real to me
I swear to you this:
I can feel your hug
I can taste your kiss

My nights were lonely
until I found you
Now nighttime's something
I look forward to

Seeing your handle,
my heart skips a beat
I long for the day
when we really meet

I want to reach out
To hold you sometime
It isn't the same
when it's done on-line

So until then
we'll chat ev'ry night
and I'll fall asleep,
my keyboard held tight.

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this is exactly what i don,t want to happen thanks so much for your help