Re: I need help, advice.
My husband and i have always had a wonderful, loving and respectful relationship.
His parents obviously older, with ill health are now talking to him about the above mentioned topics.
In some ways, my husband’s way of thinking has changed in regards to certain topics, and it is freaking me out.
The children are not in Pakistan, and if i can help it , that will not happen. Over the years, my inlaws and my husbands family members have told me that my son’s are not my son’s, that they are the son’s of the khandaan.
A relative of my husband married a woman not within the family. They have one son. This boy and his sisters were raised in the USA; the son visited Pakistan and never returned. He is now about 21/22, a drug addict, sleeping around with women, enjoying the benefits of being a wealthy landowner. That boy’s family is still here, but husband and wife are separated. Everyone knows the husband has other women, all common knowledge.
how has your husband’s thinking changed? I mean, it sounds like your kids wouldn’t agree with this and unless your husband is mentioning that it’s a good idea, I don’t think you should panic.