I need friends :(

[eastern11]

Re: I need friends

I have lived in three different states and the majority of people bring gifts when invited for the first time by the host.’

@ALIREZA1

This one example I remembered reading about. Two friends would go to parties and both would graciously thank the host and one would always get invited back and the other one not so much. One would make the conversation about himself by saying how he enjoyed himself. The popular one would make it about the host be telling them how great a host they were.

Desis are stingy about giving compliments and thrive in validation. If you gave them compliments and validations they would never have enough of you.

I used to elaborately tell the hosts how great cooks they were and bhai sahib is so lucky and how beautiful their house is and chubster is such a cute boy..lol…people would line up to invite us. **90 percent people didn’t bring gifts when invited, we would always bring a little gift and offer to help clean up.

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