I need friends :(

[ALIREZA1]

Re: I need friends

@Siren

I have sort of tried this. Like I’d meet people at a party anf I feel like we really hit it off, exchange contact info, etc. But then life gets in the way and if I let too much time lapse, I start having doubts and second guessing everything. When this happens, I just don’t really try any anymore. I start thinking that if they wanted to be friends with me, they would have reached out. I have too many self doubts.

My wife does this and my assistants do this also and I mentor them to not make assumptions and just have open communication. Example one of her friend said sth over the phone and she thought it was meant to be a slight and I told her to not make that assumption but ask her that hey Anjum when you said this, I felt a touch hurt, did you mean to be hurtful? I don’t let things happen, I make goals about what I mean to achieve from that interaction and make them happen. Things don’t just happen you gotta make them happen.