Re: i need advice
I do not rush it . I cry while in sajdah ( that feels very fulfilling and makes me feel very light after each namaz) I read each and every ayat of surah a fateha and the connecting surah seperately and give a small pause in between each ayat to absorb the meaning of what I am saying.
I say my tasbeeh more than three times while in rukuh and sajdah.
The trick is to do everything more than minimum prescribed, many more times than prescribed.
It becomes hard to do all these thing while praying with Jamaat for mandatory namaz but you can pray sunnat and nafil this way to establish that connection.
May Allah save me from being a show off . I am just trying to help you and being honest about it.