Re: I need advice. Please!
Sara2005-
You can have symptoms of ADHD for a variety of reasons (poor diet & nutrition, personality characteristics, boredom, wrong environment…) We as human beings always take our families for granted and give more importance to people who do not deserve it. No one is perfect but your sisters and parents have been there for you in the past and will always be there for you. Really learn to see them and respect them and show that. All of us here have been mean to our parents and rude to our siblings and just awful and broken their heart multiple times during our lifetimes but past is past, turn the leaf with a new day.
You have to prove yourself before they can give you breathing room. You don’t seem to have set a good precedence but most of us who are babies don’t.
If only you could see how other people live and how valuable these people are. Don’t rush into marriage. Marriage doesn’t solve anything, it only creates more complications to your life. If you really want to win your family’s respect, try to take some of their burden away, make them happier just by your pleasant company, or be useful for them, and remove the fights and fits—they don’t help your image so try to calm yourself down.
Constantly doing Duroods helps calm me down. Basically, you’re sending peace & greetings to the Prophet (PBUH) with each Durood and God send back to you 10 Salaams (Peace) for each Durood. When you are more at peace with yourself, you are able to respond more calmly to others even those who are agitated. You inner peace will help with the ADD/ADHD issue. Who best but the source of Peace to help give you more peace/calmness.