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.we lost so many ppl in our family this Ramadhan
just yesterday one of my mamoon passed away and
a week before my Fathers passing one of my khaloo also passed away
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I know it is not in Shariah to mourn more than 3 days for ppl other than the widow …
but I am torn as to how to celebrate EID…
sorry about your mamoon, khalo and father.Inalilahywainailaherajyoon.
couple of years before this kind of incidents happened in our family too and i was the person who deliver those news to other relatives and they start saying hey , " when ever you call us we feel scared looks like something happened bad in family,.":(
May Allah give you sabar..........it is human nature to miss those we love......... and especially on Eid..........i too am going through a similar scenario as have had a few deaths of very close people..........but life goes on and only our duas for their maghfirat are what will help them rather than our being sad.. so just pray for them and try to live life as normal as possible...easier said than done i know ...........but........... Allah Swt give alll the departed loved ones a place in Jannah nad may their time in the grave go swiftly for them (ameen)