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[madz124]

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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

apun kaa to Tapori ishTyle hai ich nai. apun ko yeh lafRaa paalne ko koi inTereshT nai hai, bhiRoo!

okay biroo, app mat aaiyen ga. koi zabardasti thori hai.

[Southie]

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kitpit

[Reha]

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@Xtron

Dekh..Reha..if you’re asking..ke love kia hai..well..it can be anything. I think..i learnt very hard way..ke..those people who love you..would say i love you..however..it has been used a lot. But what matters is…love comes with action. And i am that kinda person. I would show care and do anything..lekin..wouldn’t say love. I ain’t married..but i am telling you from experience.

I guess what I am trying to figure out is…do these words mean anything? Are they that valuable?

And what I get from these posts and from my parents’ marriage…is that they’re not.

How do people really express love? By their actions…but our society has conditioned us in a way where our minds don’t rest until we hear those magic words from someone or say them.

@redvelvet

Sometimes I think love is better determined through consistency of the most basic/ordinary of actions you do for others on a regular basis that don’t attract special attention because they develop trust and security and respect over time.

I think you’ve got something there…I like that.

@madz124

yeh din ba din app ki boli bombay street language ki tarah kyon hoti ja rahi hai? Reha is older than you, right? “Dekhen Reha” bola karen!

Aw madzy…so sweet of you to stick up for me

Xtron se to dosti hai…fikar not.

[Southie]

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Yo!

[madz124]

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@Reha

Aw madzy…so sweet of you to stick up for me

Xtron se to dosti hai…fikar not.

Xtron se kis ki dosti nahi hai :halo: mere [future] husband ki itni dostiyan hon, tu main usay murder kar don.

[sryope]

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even if i say it , the words seem hollow to me

[Deeba1234]

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Love is something which Allah puts between the hearts' of the husband and wife from his mercy. Anything before marriage is lust and it comes from the shaytaan.

Err no.. There's a famous hadith which basically says 'there is no better thing for two people in love than to marry'..

Contrary to cultural beliefs love before marriage in itself is not evil..

[system]

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@madz124

yeh din ba din app ki boli bombay street language ki tarah kyon hoti ja rahi hai? Reha is older than you, right? “Dekhen Reha” bola karen!

I was just gonna say that.

[Decent_6Chora]

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when she tells me "I love you" at 4pm on week days, I ask her "Acha ...kitni tandoori roti lani heen?"

On serious note, "I love you" can be said or can be displayed by other behavior. Her caring behavior behavior everyday is so reassuring that I do not feel the need to hear this every single day.

[chacha_Ghalib]

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@redvelvet

Love at the beginning of a marriage and 10-20 years own the line…can still be love. Think of it as a continuum with it hopefully growing stronger with time. That said, the feelings after a few months might still be love…but those same feelings, after weathering life’s ups and downs, can evolve to become deeper or stronger. Or it can be argued that the feelings after the first few months are lust or they lack substance/depth because the interactions have been few or not of the kind that would allow you to clearly assess if the other person is dependable and sincere. At the same time, while trials can make a relationship stronger…they can sometimes destroy a marriage as well. I do feel that iman plays a strong role in our relationships…if your iman is strong you’re likely to have consideration for your loved ones.

Sometimes the words are said to give false reassurance to the one who said it to you first…sometimes you’re the one who needs the reassurance and wants to hear them said back. Sometimes people think saying them will lead them to believe it or hope those feelings will develop if they’re not ready in place. Other times the words are said and reciprocated with sincerity. There are different situations. Sometimes I think love is better determined through consistency of the most basic/ordinary of actions you do for others on a regular basis that don’t attract special attention because they develop trust and security and respect over time.

Damn! This lady is sanity personified. Redvalvet, you have the best advice and a lot of patience in even trollish threads. Wish I had the same clarity of thought and ability to articulate those thoughts. Bravo :k: