I lied to my online boyfriend and deeply regret it so much. He said he still loves me and forgiven me but we can’t be together as I broke the trust, it was the thing that linked us together and only hard work can rebuild it again - not just words.
I told him that I’m willing to fly to his country next month (it’s very far) to prove to him that I’m willing to go far for him and will not make the same mistake again, maybe he can see me face to face, and try to trust me again. But he told me he can’t trust me again.
I know its maybe too late, and I’m such a fool for doing this, I just feel it’s my fault for breaking for what could have been a great thing. I really feel bad about myself.
Dude everyone makes mistakes and if you're in a serious relationship you have to let these things slip by ... do not travel to far off land for no reason ... talk to the guy and try to resolve things and if they don't work out then move along to bigger and better things
Try convincing him you can do so much better in the relationship. Apologize. Ask him that it was a mistake and it will never happen again. Everyone makes mistakes, its what makes us human.
well firstly how big was the lie? if it was a small or white lie then he's overreacting...u need to compare the lie with his reaction......because maybe ure lie isnt a deal breaker.....secondly by saying that he cant trust u, he hasnt actually forgiven u no matter what he says. thridly trust is earned and should not be lost easily.....uve apologised and u sound very contrite. he shouldnt demand more than u can give. fourthly ask ureself if u wud forgive him if the roles were reversed.....if u wud then he's not as flexible as u are and that could give u major problems later on.
I lied to my online boyfriend and deeply regret it so much. He said he still loves me and forgiven me but we can't be together as I broke the trust, it was the thing that linked us together and only hard work can rebuild it again - not just words.
I told him that I'm willing to fly to his country next month (it's very far) to prove to him that I'm willing to go far for him and will not make the same mistake again, maybe he can see me face to face, and try to trust me again. But he told me he can't trust me again.
I know its maybe too late, and I'm such a fool for doing this, I just feel it's my fault for breaking for what could have been a great thing. I really feel bad about myself.
He's saying that he still loves you...............but then he also says that he can't trust you. Not a good combination. You can't really have a romantic relationship (one that you're hoping will lead to marriage) without mutual trust. And did HE say that you both can't be together anymore....or is this your assumption. Because if HE said that you guys can't be together anymore.........then (to me) that means that the love he feels for you has changed, shifted.......basically it doesn't seem to be on the same wavelength as your sentiments.
Your thread reminded me of Ayesha.....Shoaib's former flame.
