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yh but i don't know how to ask him to use a condom..... its a bit embrassing.........especially on the wedding night !
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Who said it's COMPULSORY to have sex on wedding night???
You can talk to him indirectly, don't talk about sex and condoms but you can rather talk about family planning and i am sure it will finally come to options and then you can talk about condoms.
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If you don't trust what you buy in Pakistan, then buy them here before you go - or you can get then free from your GP's surgery of Family planning clinic.
Conversation will naturally get round to the subject nearer the time............
Me and hubby started talking a couple of months before about adjusting to married life etc, renting a place etc and we discussed options, I decided to go on the pill and took it for a couple of months.
Don't get too stressed about approaching the subject - it'll spoil your run up to the wedding
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Thats how Desis have been doing it for centuries.
^hehe , true.
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it happens a lot
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Aside from condoms, there are all sorts of contraception. go to your local family clinic and ask to see someone for some advice.
And also,agreed with mYsTeRiOuS_gUy, its not actually an obligation to have sex on the wedding night. you really should talk to your husband to be, if he's gonna be your life partner, its important to be able to communicate with him!
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Yes u do get them in Pakistan...and they're called Saathi.....at least thats wut they were called a decade ago.....
If ur not sure how to talk to him.....as soon as he enters the room...just say... "Ghubaraaaa!.... Ghubara pehno.. "... he should get it... I think....
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yh but i don't know how to ask him to use a condom..... its a bit embrassing.........especially on the wedding night !
depresseddddddd
u can make him to do anything on your wedding night... :p
well tell him that you dont wanna get pregnant. he will know what to do. and make sure u have one handy in your purse just in case if he forgets to bring one.
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lala moosa waise pakistan ka hi hissa hei... question...why are they flavored by the way?
Smile like a big 'O'.. ahmm
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Who said it's COMPULSORY to have sex on wedding night???
You can talk to him indirectly, don't talk about sex and condoms but you can rather talk about family planning and i am sure it will finally come to options and then you can talk about condoms.
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how come you don’t like a dozen kids
hahahahahahaha j/k
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If ur not sure how to talk to him.....as soon as he enters the room...just say... "Ghubaraaaa!.... Ghubara pehno.. "... he should get it... I think....
LMAO!!!!! ahahahhaha, funniest thing i've heard today! lol!
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Who said it's COMPULSORY to have sex on wedding night???
yes, but does he know this?? because he should if she's not ready.
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Most of teh guys in Pakistan-Please correct me if I'm wrong-refuse to use condoms.
I used a pill for a little over two years and am still a perfect 6. I went for a gyno check up gross BEFORE I got married and she prescribed me pills that I had to start taking 7 days prior to having sex or they won't have any effect.
Doctor prescribed me OrthoTricyclin and I had the worst mood swings with it for about 4 months and then I went back to my doctor and she gave em tricyclin low and I took that for about a year and 8 months without any side effects or gaining weight!
Please talk to your husband about all of this before you get married coz if u need to take that pill, u need to start atleast a week before having sex or it won't have any effect!
Forum members-please don't joke around as it's a serious matter, I remember how scared and nervous I was when I was getting married. Also when my hubby was just so ready to have kids I felt like such a criminal asking him to wait.
Please have that conversation as soon as possible, believe me when u do get married and I don't know ur situation and when saaso moms get involved, it turns into a whole different story!
Relax and take it easy , it's not that bad. You get used to the pill VERY easily.
Good Luck!!
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...some hilarious replies.
All i'm goin to say is practice safe sex and enjoy the rest of your day. cough
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Ok I have to be honest!...im a frequent traveller to Pakistan i.e. Islamabad, from what i'v heard there are alot of unmarried girls who get pregnant by having unprotected sex, now Islamabad is a forward city and they should knw what condoms are hence should use them, and to be honest i havn't seen any major chemist providing it!!
Plus ur hubby might not like the idea of family planning, especially if it's the first the baby, this is something that guys down there are not comfortable about, especially if it's coming from the wife - If you refuse him of having sex (bcoz i knw someone in my family who's done that on their wedding night and the guy had a blast on his valima day with his sister and parents that his mrs did not allow him to get jiggy jiggy with her) an average of 90% of guys down their are like that.
Try to build an understanding with him, take the morning after pill though pills have side effects, take a condom with you if you are really worried, he might feel a bit embarssed lol!...
Hoping it helps
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There is no better way to say it; what you have to understand is that your health comes first and you know your body more than anyone. Protection is there for a reason so use it appropiately. Don't hesitate and shy away from it. It is a health issue, a serious one.
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why don't you go for natural birth control techniques..? Natural birth control refers to any one of several natural methods or techniques used to prevent pregnancy. Natural birth control methods do not include prescription medications (such as birth control pills), topical spermicides, or any type of physical barriers like condoms and diaphragms. Natural birth control techniques can be effective in preventing pregnancy if done correctly and consistently.
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If ur not sure how to talk to him.....as soon as he enters the room...just say... "Ghubaraaaa!.... Ghubara pehno.. "... he should get it... I think....
Thats the funniest thing I have read in quite a while. :D
Seriously, you can screw him. but cant talk to him? How odd! Atleast make sure you carry some condoms in your bag.
