i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!

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Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!

@mermaid123

There is something called a contraceptive injection - you don’t have to take your pill on the wedding day or talk to your husband about condoms - it prevents you from getting pregnant for around 8-12 weeks. Once you are comfortable with your husband, you can start discussing other types of contraception. Consult your doctor about it.

its the depo-provera shot and it is NOTORIOUS for causing weight gain. i put on 20lbs and it was NOT pleasant! i would really not recommend it just before she gets married.

as for contraceptives being haram, from what i’ve read, its haram once you’ve conceived because then you’re interfering with a life that already exists.
prior to that, you can go ahead and protect yourself any way you want to in order to not get pregnant. on a sidenote- maulvi’s should really enlighten themselves more and take into consideration the problem of over-population and parents being unable to provide for their many children before they start preaching.