Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
dont talk to him abut this and even after the event?? u dont have to have sex on ur wedding nite??? oh my god are u for real? what guy would ever go along with that?
i cant ppl even think like this in this day and age. no wonder ppl have kids and are miserable and dont even want them but are stuck cuz no one says anything...my motto is ...."if u are ready to have sex...then u should be ready to talk about it"
I agree to what funguy said : If i were getting married to someone in Pak, i would NOT talk to him about it first. IF you dont want to have kids yet, talk to him about it after the wedding. Do not offer him any condoms taht you take from here. He may get some wierd notions about you being all azaad and what not. Talk to him about it after the wedding, its not like you have to have sex the very first night. I am sure, since you are getting married to him, he is a reasonable enough of a man that your parents chose him for you.
Do not talk to him before the wedding about this. And even after the event, try to limit what you say it and how you say it until he gets to know you better. Cultural differences bhi koi cheez hotay hain.