Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
SGC, trust me when i say this : a guy in pakistan may not have the same outlook as a guy raised abroad. I am not saying dont discuss it when you are married, just dont do it before the wedding if he doesnt bring it up. Frankly, the whole world is not like US/Canada/UK. People are different in differnt countries/cultures and they have different perceptions of things. I have seen atleast one person's life made hell due to a similiar situation like this. Her WHOLE family in Pakistan just assumes that since she has spent considerable amount of time abroad, she knows everything and is too "advanced". And i know for a fact she is much better than the girls in Pak. We know what some of them are capable of.