Re: i know this is a embrassing questionn but i need help!
I agree to what funguy said : If i were getting married to someone in Pak, i would NOT talk to him about it first. IF you dont want to have kids yet, talk to him about it after the wedding. Do not offer him any condoms taht you take from here. He may get some wierd notions about you being all azaad and what not. Talk to him about it after the wedding, its not like you have to have sex the very first night. I am sure, since you are getting married to him, he is a reasonable enough of a man that your parents chose him for you.
Do not talk to him before the wedding about this. And even after the event, try to limit what you say it and how you say it until he gets to know you better. Cultural differences bhi koi cheez hotay hain.