Re: I have realized..
**great mirage..let me add some more from the marriage perspective purely
-learn to ignore small things and gradually u will see u have the patience to absorb/deal with big issues (that definitely do come after u r married)
-dun discuss every small issue with ur own parents or friends or any other person,u will just end up feeling more bad..no one understands ur situation as good as u urself understand it..and believe me u know how to deal with it,every girl does know naturally.
-every person on earth is hungry for love..give as much love to ur husband as possible,only this can change him if u want and bring good out of him..but it needs some time and patience.
-be good to ur in-laws,develop some bond with them..in bad times (God forbid),ur in-laws can be a great support but only if u have good terms with them.**